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October 09, 2015

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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Ihaveather- apist I have sessions with several times a month. I've been going to him for three years now, and he has helped me through many rough patches. He is a trustworthy, perceptive and wise psy- chologist in his mid-60s. My problem is this: On two ap- pointments within four months, he seems to have been medicated, acting dazed and with slurred speech. During these two sessions his advice and viewpoints were useless, and I felt like my time and money were wasted. I realize this has hap- pened only twice, but I am concerned with show- ing up to an appointment and not knowing what condition he may be in. I'd like to confront the issue in some way, but I fear hurting his feelings, his pride and our doctor/ patient relationship. I treasure this doctor, and don't want to lose him. I would love your advice on a direction to take. —ConfusedClient DEAR CONFUSED » The ideal place to confront any issue with your thera- pist is — in therapy. Therapists don't nor- mally discuss their own lives, nor should they. But if your therapist is behav- ing in a way that affects quality of care, it becomes appropriate to discuss. Your therapist might have a health issue or oth- er personal problem that is impairing his ability to provide the care he is capable of and which you deserve. You and he have built up a commendable relationship based on his expertise and your mutual trust. Now you should draw upon that and tell him. In this case, the go-to therapist's question, "How does that make you feel?" should be met with a very honest answer. DEAR AMY » I am 54 years old and my problem is that I want to go to col- lege, but because of my financi al s itua tion I am having trouble. I always wanted to continue going to school while I was younger but I have three children and two have had serious health issues. My husband also had quadru- ple-bypass surgery, so as you can see I have had a very busy life. Is it too late for me? — Hopeful DEAR HOPEFUL » I love your question, because I am somewhat of a personal expert on this. My own mother started attending college when she was 48, after several years spent working as a typist. She went on to get her undergraduate and then master's degree. Education changed her life in profound ways. It was also wonderful as a young person to see my mom (who raised my sib- lings and me as a single mother) taking steps to pursue her education. Community college might be the best place for you to start. Commu- nity colleges offer quality education at a value. You may have help financing your education through scholarships and grants. I assume your entire family will be thrilled and proud if you make this life- affirming choice. How should a client respond to therapist's impairment? You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Libra(Sept.23-Oct.23) — Stay on top of paperwork. Legal, medical or other vital documents are best reviewed and updated. Penalties will be incurred if you let matters lapse. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — As a fair and confident employee, you will earn the respect of your colleagues and put yourself in the running for a raise or promotion. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Don't spread yourself too thin. Making unrealistic prom- ises or taking on too many tasks will damage your reputation if you fall short. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Your true colors are sure to shine through at functions that allow you to show off your personal attributes. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — A change in your residence is apparent. Improvements to your home or a change in loca- tion will initiate a new chapter in your life. Sound investment advice will pay off. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Novel encounters or events will result in myriad favorable changes. The distinctive people you meet will provide a base for new friendships and romantic experiences. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Dedicate yourself to finish- ing what you start before you take on more projects. You will feel a great deal of fulfillment and relief once your efforts are complete. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — You will be surprised by the offers you receive if you make it clear to others that you are available and willing to par- ticipate in community events or new business ventures. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Family dynamics will be turbulent. Don't make a fuss when you should be listening to people and looking for solutions. As long as you remain helpful and positive, you will come out on top. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Love and romance are in a high cycle. Share your per- sonal thoughts and dreams with friends, and compare notes with others who harbor similar aspirations. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Invest in your talents. Make improvements that will help you reach your destination. Increased education, visibility and new connections will result in greater opportunities. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — You will be overwhelmed if you allow small issues to set you back. You have what it takes to ride out any storm if you are willing to collaborate. Horoscope By Eugenia Last FRIDAY, OCT. 9 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM FRIDAY, OCTOBER 9, 2015 4 B

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