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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»When my wonderful hus- band passed away two years ago, I set up an educational fund for my c h il dr en — f or t ho se w ho wished to provide gifts in his memory. At the time, it was very hard for me to read all the kind cards I received. Last night I found three checks I had missed: two for $50 and one for $500! These are from people I don't see on a regular basis, if ever. I know it's far too late to deposit the checks but not too late to say thank you. My question is whether to acknowledge the uncashed checks. Should I just send them back with my thank you notes? Should I say something about not depositing them? I feel very awkward about this, and no less ap- preciative of the uncashed checks than I am of the checks I deposited. —MoreThana Day Late DEAR DAY LATE » You are so right when you say that it is never too late to thank people for their generosity. You should write a note, explaining your challenge. Say, "I see that you donated generously to my children's educa- tional fund and that I never encountered (or thanked you for) your very thoughtful donation until now. I am sending your check back to you. Even though it has not been cashed I want you to know that I am incred- ibly touched and deeply grateful. The educational fund is in great shape and so please don't feel compelled to replace this check. The thought of your generosity is all the gift we need." Follow this with a few lines about how you and the children are doing and sign off with affection. DEAR AMY » I met a won- derful man who is kind, shares my religion, does not have any addictions and makes me feel loved. He is widowed and I'm divorced. I let him know that I wanted to spend time together, but that he needed to let me know in advance rather than just show up at my house. He doesn't offer to take me out, nor does he ever buy a meal and bring it to my house. I have not met his friends, though he said he wants to marry me. He claims he is honest but I have caught him in a number of lies. I told him I don't trust him. I tried ending the re- lationship but he begged me to give him another chance. I'm really confused. Should I end the roman- tic relationship? — Wanting it to Work DEAR WANTING » Let's recap: He is a chronic liar and you are certain that you can't trust him. According to you, not having an addiction is one of his best qualities. If you decide to try to stay in this relationship, you should enjoy it for what it is and make no as- sumptions. But based on your own description, you should consider ending it. Widow wonders what to do with uncashed checks for kids You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Sagittarius(Nov.23-Dec. 21) — Rumors will circulate if you haven't been honest with someone. Caution must be taken while traveling or dealing with authoritative individuals. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — You will feel relieved and in the mood to celebrate with someone you love once the work is done. Make an impression by planning something lavish. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Size up your situation and make decisions based on your findings. Don't let your emotions lead you down the wrong path. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — You'll have a creative way of dealing with personal matters. Your actions, consideration and affection will play important roles in your day. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Financial gains look prom- ising, with many contracts, settlements and winnings head- ing your way. Travel plans will give you the incentive to tie up loose ends. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Make a point to share your plans and feelings with someone special. The support you receive and the input that's offered will give you the momentum you need to reach your goals. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Take on a challenge, but don't underestimate any opponent you face. Prove that you are responsible and ready to handle whatever challenge you encounter. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Getting together with old friends or reminiscing about the past will spark new enthusiasm and lead to the revival of hob- bies and activities that you used to enjoy. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Bide your time and focus on jobs you have left unfinished. Being productive will make you look good and help you avoid troublesome emotional en- counters. Listen to the voice of experience. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Uncertainty will plague you. You should delay making a decision if you have doubts about the situation. It's better to be safe than to appease someone who's taking advantage of you. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Taking a trip or expanding your knowledge will spark interest in an unusual vocation. Consider your options and how you can turn something you love doing into a moneymaking venture. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Don't be afraid to be differ- ent. It's your special way of do- ing things that attracts interest and attention. Romance should take top priority. Horoscope By Eugenia Last WEDNESDAY, DEC. 9 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 9, 2015 6 B