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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman GETFUZZY DarbyConley ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Manyyears ago, I had a sexual rela- tionship with a man. After we had been in- volved for about a year, he told me he had a girlfriend. We both got married to members of the opposite sex. Although I am mar- ried to a woman and I do care for the person, I still recall the time I spent with the man. It was definite- ly great! There is a guy at work that I believe is gay. He comes across as a kind, hardworking person, and I have heard people refer- ence "his partner," but I'm not sure he is gay. I have viewed his Facebook page several times, and there are only two photos of him, alone. I also believe I have seen him in the grocery store with someone who may be "the partner," as I thought they had identical jackets. I think he's very hand- some, OK, cute! He's very smart/bright and consid- ered a go-to person for the team he's on at work. I am on another team, and we have only talked work-related items. I am a supervisor. I'm sure you'll say I'm married and need to take care of that first. But my questions are: 1. Do I make contact with him by Facebook? 2. What do I do about the interest I have in the guy? —ConfusedGuyor Confused Gay DEAR CONFUSED » O f course you want to have a sexual relationship with your colleague. You don't know him, so what else could it be but a work- place crush that you hope will lead to more? This is odious on several levels. Your mar- riage to "the person" has wound down, don't you think? So, yes, you should definitely deal with your marriage before you at- tempt to poach someone else's partner. My gaydar is on the fritz, and so you are going to have to discern this other man's sexuality by "friending" him on Fa- cebook and then drunk- messaging him with your proposition. Before you do so, keep in mind that your playful interest could backfire for you. DEAR AMY » I finish my college program at the end of this month. I plan to move out of my par- ents' house in June. I've looked up a few places nearby and have done some re search . It's exc it- ing! The only thing I fret about is that my parents will try to hold me home another year or more. My plan is to be out before my 23rd birthday. How can I do what I want to do — not what they want me to do? — Almost Graduate DEAR ALMOST »Your parents will want to talk your plans through with you — and they may try to persuade you to stay home. While you are doing your research, ask poten- tial landlords what money they require "up front." This would likely add up — and that's before you even move in. Add to that the cost of utilities, food and transportation, and you can see why it is dif- ficult for young adults to attain independence. Man wonders if co-worker is gay, wants to contact him You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Capricorn(Dec.22-Jan.19) — Eliminate outside distractions and spend quality time with someone you want to reassure. Don't let stress endanger your partnership. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Legal advice may be neces- sary in order to understand inheritance, insurance or tax matters. Don't offer advice. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Don't share your opinion if it isn't asked for. Criticism or interfering in other people's af- fairs will make you appear pushy or domineering. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Your creativity and artistry will be recognized and rewarded both at home and at work. Youngsters will be impressed with your ideas and talents. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — You have plenty to offer. Share your ideas for improving your job or the environment in which you work. You will be admired for your dedication and input. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Valuable networking opportu- nities must be taken advantage of. Stay informed by attending business functions, seminars or discussions. The information you receive will lead to a promo- tion or valuable opportunity. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — The people you live or work with will be jealous or posses- sive. If you can't see eye to eye, it would be best to get together with a good friend who doesn't judge you. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Join a club or group that will get you moving and moti- vated. Sports or other physical activities will increase your energy level and help to reduce stress. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Do your own thing, as now is not the time to take on too much or make unrealistic promises. You want to rejuvenate. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Time spent with someone special will be rewarding. With your experience, you can help cultivate a desire to learn and take on new challenges while you build a closer bond with each other. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Your love life will be volatile if you are too possessive or secre- tive. Don't blow minor events out of proportion and avoid get- ting into a discussion that could lead to regret. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Don't share personal matters with a friend who can't keep a secret. Ask for advice from a professional who will not reveal the information you dis- close. Delicate matters require discreet treatment. Horoscope By Eugenia Last SATURDAY, JAN. 17 SATURDAY, JANUARY 17, 2015 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 5 B