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February 25, 2015

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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman GETFUZZY DarbyConley ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Iamagirlin high school. Recently I have started dating a boy, and I have deep feelings for him. We have been friends for a long time. However, I have had many dreams involving girls. I am feeling at- tracted to girls as well as boys. I have felt this way since I was around 13. I still love my boyfriend, though. So am I bisexual? I haven't shared my feelings with anybody I know. A close friend of mine is bi, but I don't want to talk to her about my situation until I am sure. Please help, I'm feeling really confused. —Unsure DEAR UNSURE » First off, you are "normal." What I me an i s tha t anyth ing you are — hetero, gay, bi, or a heterosexual girl who loves a boy but dreams about girls — is "normal," because when it comes to sexual orientation there is simply no one way to be. Human sexuality and attraction occur along a very wide spectrum, and as you grow and mature, you will wrestle with them and make various choices based on what feels right for you. Don't wait until you are "sure" to talk about this; talking about it will help you to discover where your comfort lies. Just make sure you talk to someone who respects you and will respect your privacy. DEAR AMY » My friend "Jack" recently got en- gaged to "Jill." Jack and I have been friends literally since before we could walk. Jill is 26, and this will be her third marriage. Both previous marriages ended with her having affairs. She also has a his- tory of doing drugs and stealing. She has stolen from me, my family and Jack's family. She has stolen medication, money, you name it. Jack insists that she is "doing better," that she has recovered from her mistakes and would never do things like that now. Jill has never apologized for her actions and blames everything she did on her previous husbands. I worry for Jack but he brushes off my concerns. Jill has made it clear she won' t let me be arou nd Jack unless I allow her to be present. Recently she has started mocking and insulting me. Should I keep trying to express my worries that this will only end in tears for my friend, or should I back off, let him do as he wants and prepare to help him clean up the mess? — Worried and Wounded DEAR WORRIED » I vote for Door No. 2. You have already expressed your concerns. Friends tell one an- other the hard truths but are also available to staff the cleanup crew. I agree that "this will only end in tears," but it seems that for now the tears will be yours. It is very hard to watch a friend walk into the fire, but "Jack" might need to get burned before he figures out that people don't change when they don't acknowledge their actions. Teen questions her sexual orientation after dreams You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Pisces(Feb.20-March20) — Find a quiet corner and get your work done without entering into a stressful dispute. Your at- tention to detail will ensure that you complete your tasks. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Your honest, open manner and true concern for others make you a trusted confidante. Do something special for someone who has been there for you. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Consider the motives of some- one who wants you to loan out your cash. A foolhardy financial venture will cause setbacks. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — You'll have to work hard to get things going. Dwelling on emotional issues will lead to de- pression. Take a mental health day or do something you enjoy. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Don't get drawn into the rumor mill, and avoid repeating negative or uncomplimentary comments. Gossip will not help you make gains, but it will put you in an awkward position. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Step into the limelight with confidence. Your suggestions will have a powerful impact on those around you, and you will be able to gain valuable support for your plans. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Deception is apparent. Someone will try to undermine your cred- ibility. Be prepared to fight for what is rightfully yours. Work alone for now. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — You are thirsty for knowl- edge. Attend informal events or seminars that will give you insight into different cultures and philosophies. The people you meet will figure prominently in your future. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — You will be asked to help with someone's financial or legal matters. You will gain confidence and contentment knowing that you are doing something nice for someone. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Partnerships look promis- ing. Show what you can bring to the table and find out how far you can go, based on the sum total of your and your counter- part's contributions. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — The more you do to help those in need, the more recogni- tion and satisfaction you will receive. You have what it takes to get the work done in a timely manner. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Get out and have a good time with a friend or lover. Lively activities will provide a welcome diversion from everyday pres- sures and tension. Romance is in the stars. Horoscope By Eugenia Last WEDNESDAY, FEB. 25 WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 25, 2015 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B

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