Issue link: http://www.epageflip.net/i/287883
DILBERT Scott Adams PEARLS BEFORE SWINE Stephan Pastis PICKLES Brian Crane BABY BLUES Jerry Scott & Rick Kirkman GET FUZZY Darby Conley ZITS Jerry Scott & Jim Borgman SHERMAN'S LAGOON Jim Toomey ARGYLE SWEATER Scott Hilburn BIZARRO Dan Piraro DEAR CAROLYN » My husband's parents live in another state. They are in their 80s but quite compos mentis and still play the occasional nine holes of golf. After almost 50 years in the same house, they are moving to an apart- ment. They have done everything necessary to get to this point, like getting rid of stuff, selling the house, finding an apartment they love, hir- ing the movers, etc., by themselves. I have told my husband it would be good if he went up there to help with the actual move. I have told him how stressful and exhausting a move can be even for younger people. He has asked them if they want him to come, but they have not given a definitive answer. My view is he should just tell them he's coming. I doubt they will tell him not to. I don't want to keep nagging, but I feel strongly that my husband should be there. What do you think? — In-Law DEAR IN-LAW » I think you're right, and as spouse you have extra leeway to give a kick when needed. "They need you. I'm through being subtle." If applicable: "We'll want our kids to do the same for us someday, so set the example now." If you don't have other responsibilities keeping you home, then go with him. I'm not normally of the impose-yourself school of family relations, but this is ridiculous. Even with a professional, full-service, pack-and-unpack move, someone still needs to make food runs, answer 1,000 questions, manage temporary housing and set up basics, including furniture arrangement. DEAR CAROLYN » Re: Move: OK, when did the pod eat Carolyn? When has it EVER been a good idea for one adult to force their way onto another? The parents are compe- tent adults who can take care of themselves, the husband doesn't want to go, so why is In-Law good to force this on other people? — Anonymous DEAR ANONYMOUS » Guess my disclaimer wasn't disclaimey enough. Two octogenarians haven't declined their son's offer to help. Some- times, it's really, really OK to add 2 + 2, say, "I'm coming — I'll stay out of your way unless and until something needs doing," and just show up. If the son's presence is genu- inely unwelcome, then he can just apologize for presuming and go home. But I really don't see that happening. Moving is just different. DEAR CAROLYN » Re: Move: Any reason the wife shouldn't volunteer herself to help her in-laws move? Husband can watch the kids, if that's necessary. — Anonymous 2 DEAR ANONYMOUS » Un- less the husband would be just another piece of furniture for his parents to worry about, this really is his time to step up. Family should step in and help aging parents with move Carolyn Hax Ask Carolyn Email Carolyn Hax at tellme@washpost.com, follow her on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ carolyn.hax or chat with her online at noon Eastern time each Friday at www.washingtonpost.com. Sudoku Instructions: The object is to place the numbers 1 to 9 in the empty squares so that each row, each column and each 3x3 box contains the number only once. Answer to Previous Puzzle Celebrity Cipher By Luis Campos Instructions: Celebrity Cipher cryptograms are created from quotations by famous people, past and present. Each letter in the cipher stands for another. NEA Crossword Aries (March 21-April 19) — A new moneymaking oppor- tunity will develop. Unexpected bills will be incentive for you to explore new possibilities that could increase your potential. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Your skills and knowledge should be put to better use. Finding ways to budget better will help you get ahead. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Don't let restlessness be your downfall. Use pent-up energy to make improvements. Updating your image can provide you with the inspiration that you need. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Widen your social circle. Get involved in group activities or a club. Your generous nature will be put to good use, and you will make interesting new friends. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Now is a favorable time to make a move. Use every resource available to you. Interviews and employment possibilities will have positive results. You will impress others. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — You may be hardworking, but you need some recreation also. Mix business with pleasure and you'll make new allies. Stimu- late your creativity by exploring different cultures and customs. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — It's time for a change. If an emotional situation is causing you anxiety or headaches, con- sider moving on. Take a look at available real estate or a com- munity that interests you. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Spice up your love life with a little romance. Whether you go dining, dancing or just stay at home, tune out any distractions and devote yourself to someone you enjoy being with. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Strive to get into a position that allows you to help others. Use any chance you get to improve your professional relationships and gain respect. Offer assistance and you'll get high returns. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Interacting and socializing with clients and co-workers will help you gain valuable business connections. Consider taking in a sporting event, or devise your own friendly competition. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — You'll face opposition regard- ing a decision that changes the landscape at home or your workplace. You will win in the end, but don't go over budget. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Whether you are involved in group functions or meetings, compromise will be the key. Get together with loved ones and plan a trip or activity that everyone will enjoy. Horoscope By Bernice Bede Osol TUESDAY, APRIL 1 Tuesday, april 1, 2014 redBluFFdailyNeWs.COM | YOUR DAILY BREAK | 3 B