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2A Daily News – Tuesday, October 23, 2012 Community people&events Brown-Zilembo to wed Let's be honest way by people? Do you find your- self annoyed by the things that peo- ple do? Do you and the people clos- est in your life often fight about things? If asked, would people describe you as touchy? Let's be honest, how you feel on the surface in all of these scenarios is not the problem. The problem is you aren't dealing with a much bigger and deeper problem. Are you easily rubbed the wrong Mr. and Mrs.Wayne Brown share their joy in announcing the engagement of their daugh- ter, Jaymee Jacqueline Brown to Nickolas Colton Zilembo. Zilembo is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Quintyn Zilembo from Grants Pass, Ore.Brown was a 2001 graduate of Red Bluff High School. She now resides in Grants Pass, Ore., employed as the youth pastor of Parkway Christian Center. Zilembo is a fire- fighter for Rural Metro. The wedding will be Saturday, October 27, 2012. Following a honeymoon in Hawaii, the newlyweds will make their home in Grants Pass, Ore. Halloween treats for kids The Frontier Village Farmer's Market is having a special Halloween event for any child that attends the Farmer's Market on Oct. 27. They will receive a free mini pumpkin that they can decorate at the market or take home. Any child in costume will receive a free goody bag with Halloween surprises from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Saturday. Oct. 31. The center will be hosting a Trick or Treat event 5-7 The market will share a new food demonstration from 9:30-11 a.m. on Saturday Nov. 3, featuring a fun and tasty pumpkin tart. SECRET WITNESS 529-1268 A program of Tehama County Neighborhood Watch Program, Inc. Setting it straight –––––––– It is the policy of the Daily News to correct as quickly as possible all errors in fact that have been published in the newspaper. If you feel a factual error has been made in a news story, call the news department at 527-2153. 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Gets Second License farmer of the Bend district, learned something more than possession of a marriage license was necessary to validate his claim of Niki Kamimura for his bride he hurried to Red Bluff one day last week "to do the thing right," as he expressed it. He was not aware, he said, when on February 19, 1921, he procured a mar- riage license from the county clerk here that any cer- emony was required to wed the Japanese girl of his choice. — Oct. 23, 1922 When He Weds Girl When Ichizo Tomito, an industrious Japanese By Molly Murphy Red Bluff FFA Reporter The Greenhand Con- ference was held on Oct. 8 at Foothill High School. Holiday help The holidays are com- ing up and Corning Chris- tian Assistance (CCA) will be providing holiday meals for those in need. The meal will include a turkey, stuffing, gravy The conference is for freshmen involved in FFA who plan to continue to be involved throughout high school. The confer- ence teaches them to be mix, vegetables, cranber- ry sauce, rolls and a pie. A meal for a family of more outgoing, to become better leaders and to step out of their com- fort zone whenever possi- ble. Freshman Paige four or five is only $15. Since 2011, CCA has added 171 new families so the need is greater than before. CCA provides more this process. The RBFD appreciates the public's patience with this process that helps us to ensure a reliable water source during emergencies. The Red Bluff Fire Department will be testing fire hydrants throughout the City during the months of October and November. The testing will begin in the northern part of town (Forward Addition) and progress from there, and will be conducted during weekdays. Water customers may experience temporary pressure fluctuations during than just food for local families, but helps with housing and utilities when they have the means to do so. The organization has a long history of helping out families in need in the Corning community, but is dependent on donations from the community and government grants. Those who are able are welcome to donate non- perishable foods or money. CCA is open Monday and Friday from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. or when not open, food may be dropped off at the Corn- ing Chamber of Com- merce office around the Smith, who attended the conference, said, "I learned how to work together and solve prob- lems through fun activi- ties." COMMUNITY CLIPS corner at 1110 Solano St., from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. except for during the lunch hour. Checks may also be sent to CCA at P.O. Box 872, Corning, 96021. kids offered Several holiday kids camps are coming up: •Nov. 19-21 Fall Fest Kids Camp • Dec. 26-28 Santas Holiday camps for Camp Let's be honest. Somewhere at sometime something happened that changed you or affected you in such a way that you created a permanent memory and now react in the same way every time you are reminded of that time. If your first boyfriend ridiculed you for something or made you feel bad about yourself, chances are you are making your current husband pay every time you experience that same feeling your old boyfriend created. If you were abused by a parent and you resist anyone telling you what to do, it is because you don't want to feel the same pain now that you did back then. riage or two. Short of living with a therapist, most people do not have the skills or the inclination to try to read into every maladaptive thing you do and trace it back to its origin. Most people will either begrudg- ingly put up with your crap or emotionally detach from you. Neither scenario is a great way to live. Let's be honest. The fact is that people today will not understand you acting out the pains of yester- day. If you act in negative ways because you have emotional trig- gers that no one can see, over time you are going to alienate people, lose friendships and perhaps a mar- find that you are frequently at odds with people at home, at work or in the community, you may need to look at what that is all about. The best way to do that is to be honest with yourself. The next time you see yourself about to scream at your kids again, the next time you want to snipe at your spouse, the next time you want to punch that co-worker in the throat, stop and ask yourself hon- estly why you feel that way. If you take an honest look at why you feel the way you feel, chances are you will start to travel back in time and somewhere your thoughts will land on a time or sit- uation where you experienced something negative and it made its mark in your psyche. Re-evaluate that time. Examine it. Look at it with a fresh perspective and maybe you will see that it doesn't need to Let's be honest, if you have the hold on your life that it does. If you can't shake the feeling that the memory creates, then talk to someone about it. Chances are that some- one somewhere can help you sort out the emo- tions that this memory creates. Faydra Rector You Matter you can improve your thinking and it will improve your whole life. You will find that life is much more fun when you aren't at odds with other people. Your kids will thank you, your spouse will thank you and your quality of life will greatly improve. Let's be honest. Most people want happy rela- tionships and most peo- ple want to operate in control of themselves. You may think that the way you react to things is just part of who you are, but I submit to you that Faydra Rector, MA is a mental health administrator, author, public speaker, educator and life coach who lives in Red Bluff. She can be reached at lifecoach@shasta.com or view her blogs at http://faydraandcompany.blogspot. com/ and http://allaboutdivorce.blogspot.com /. FFAsends freshmen to Greenhand Conference Workshop Kids Camp • Holiday Vacation All camps are 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. for ages 5-12. Cost is $13 for a full day or $7 for a half day. For more information call 527-8181. Fall Magic THE TEHAMA COUNTY CATTLEWOMEN PRESENT FASHION SHOW & LUNCHEON Saturday, November 3, 2012 DOORS OPEN AT 10:00 AM Carlino's Room at Rolling Hills Casino, Corning Lunch & Fashion Show • Boutique • Cowboy Pantry COWBELLE OF THE YEAR For tickets and more information, please contact Shelley MacDonald at 530-529-9676 TICKETS AVAILABLE UNTIL OCT. 26, 2012 $28/person