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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman THEDUPLEX GlennMcCoy ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Thispast summer, my best friend of 30 years, her 9-year-old daughter, her new hus- band and others, rented a villa in the Caribbean. I was invited to join. My friend has always been very self-centered. I've always accepted this about her. On the fourth day, I was asked to move into the room with the child. Origi- nally my friend said that I may have to do this for one or two nights, but not half the trip. When I tried to mitigate the situa- tion calmly, she pounced. They all ganged up on me after that. However, the worst part of this situation is that while there — in a foreign country — with a child in the house — cocaine was bought and consumed. My friend had a history of this and as- sured me that this would be a "clean vacation." I ended up watching a movie in the room with the child while the other very high people were right outside the window. I checked in to a hotel the next day and was basi- cally outcast after that. I feel betrayed that she lied about my accommo- dations and put me (and the child) at risk possess- ing a narcotic. I cannot take chances like that! She and I own prop- erty together in her home state on the other side of the country. I have asked to be bought out and have not really discussed any- thing since. She is both- ered by my "silence," but I feel like the most prudent and kindest thing I can do is remain silent. And I know it is fruit- less to speak to addiction. Your thoughts? —SadAboutMy Friend DEAR SAD » Well, your friendship is over. I'm not sure why you would choose to stay silent about this friendship's de- mise, other than anxiety over being bullied. "Kindness" in this con- text is not staying silent, but speaking your mind, because your kindness should be directed toward yourself. Your silence translates into acceptance of reprehensible behavior. You should state your issues with her (includ- ing drug use), and take steps to extricate yourself from co-ownership of this property. DEAR AMY » You recently responded to a "Confused Girl Scout Mom," whose daughter was on the receiving end of a troop leader's generosity on a Girl Scout outing, when the leader purchased something for the girl. I have been in similar situations with my daugh- ter and assume there will be more as she gets older. I was surprised the writer's husband would balk at the Girl Scout val- ues of being gracious. I would only add that a girl can also write a simple card to thank the troop leader. This mom modeled the kind response; now she could extend the example to her daughter herself. — Alex in Dallas, TX DEAR ALEX » A note from the girl to her troop leader would complete this lesson in generosity perfectly. Thank you! Villa guest confronts friend over drug use on vacation You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@amydickinson. com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Pisces(Feb.20-March20) — It's a good day to talk with people who share your experi- ence, skills or concerns. Think carefully about what might need to be changed in order for you to meet your goals. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Size up your situation and then make a move. Don't give anyone a chance to dictate how you live your life or do your job. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — An emotional conversation will impart greater meaning to the way you want to do things in the future. Honesty will promote decisions based on trust. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Consider the consequences if you speak up about some- thing you know little about. Gather all the facts. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — You will find emotional comfort and peace through engaging in meditation and education and trying something altogether different. Broaden- ing your scope will enhance your respect for others. Build strong alliances. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — A couple of physical changes will boost your spirits. Refuse to let a jealous individual who feels threatened by you discourage your plan to succeed. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — A short trip will be informative. You are best off seeing some- thing firsthand if you want to get involved. Gains will be made if you get the inside scoop. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Pressure will lead to stress if you let it. Deal with emotional mayhem before it explodes in order to reverse any troubles that are brewing. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Share your feelings with someone you care about. Doing so will be a relief and will help you recognize how your ideas are being perceived and what degree of help will be offered. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Socialize and mix busi- ness with pleasure. An honest and open approach will ensure that you are not misinterpreted. Someone will be jealous of your popularity. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Settle down and be satisfied with what you have. Too much of anything will lead to added stress and an inability to follow your dreams. Moderation will help you build greater security. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — An emotional incident in the past must not be allowed to interfere with a chance to move forward now. Make whatever changes are necessary to by- pass trouble. Horoscope By Eugenia Last THURSDAY, MARCH 2 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM THURSDAY, MARCH 2, 2017 2 B