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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Ihavebeen working at my com- pany for six years. I have shown selfless dedication and can count on one hand th e numbe r of da ys I've called in sick. Last year, due to changes in our business, I started working in a different department. My new colleague is challenging. She be- comes "sick" toward the end of every workweek and is constantly com- plaining of some new (presumably imagined) malady. This requires her to take off or leave early. I (and others) am almost 99 percent certain that this is made up, or a product of mental illness. Her absences are through the roof. As someone with a strong work ethic, I am becom- ing resentful, particularly since this has been going on for ages and there has been no disciplinary action. I have compassion for people who are genu- inely sick, but how do I deal with these feelings against her? —TotallyFed-Up DEAR FED-UP » Does this co-worker's behavior and frequent absences have a direct impact on your own productivity? Does it disrupt the work flow in your unit? If so, you should go to your supervi- sor and discuss it. Otherwise, it is useless to speculate about this person behind her back. Doing so just provides a negative distraction. Think of it this way: Every single day, she has to be her — with illnesses (real or imagined), and with an attitude toward work that would never satisfy you. You get to go through the day being you. If you let re sentme nt get the upper hand, then you are handing over your esteem to someone who doesn't deserve it. DEAR AMY » Could you comment on proper etiquette for funerals? All too often, I see people coming in jeans and flip-flops more fit for the beach than for a funeral. I was raised to show my respect for the deceased by wearing busi- nesslike clothing. I have also observed teens treating the visits like they were social gatherings: laughing and being loud. Have times changed? I find it disturbing to find this behavior at a place where respect should be of utmost importance. Could you please pres- ent your opinion on this? — Disgusted DEAR DISGUSTED » There is a basic dress code for memorials and funerals. However, speaking as someone who has experienced a lot of loss, I can tell you that looking out at a congregation of people gathered to remember a loved one, I can see beyond the jeans and be extremely grate- ful for every person who has chosen to attend a ceremony to celebrate an important life. If people behave in a way that is disrespectful, a family member should approach the group, introduce himself, and gently ask them to lower their voices. Conscientious co-worker is frustrated by a 'sick' slacker You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Leo(July23-Aug.22)— Getting together with people from your past will lighten your mood and give you a comforting sense of accomplishment. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Property or investment deals will turn a profit if you are well-informed and have the cash, but don't lend or borrow money. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Get together with friends. Fam- ily members will be hard to deal with, so plan to attend a social event away from home. A short trip will lead to an opportunity. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — You will be able to persuade others to follow your plans. If you are assertive and bold, you will gain recognition, respect and assistance. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — You may be itching to travel, but it would be best to wait if your budget is tight. Going into debt for a quick get- away will seem like a mistake when the bills start flowing in. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — You will be inclined to overreact to a personal matter that arises. Financial, medical or legal questions are best ad- dressed swiftly. A professional change should be considered. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Helping others will boost your confidence and give you a sense of satisfaction. It's time to let your friends and allies know how much you value their support and encouragement. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Careful budgeting will help you out of a temporary financial bind. Your plans may be set back for a while, but you will be able to get back on track if you are frugal. Aries (March 21-April 19) — The money that is headed your way should be put into your savings and not squandered on unnecessary purchases. Plan on enjoying inexpensive entertain- ment with a friend. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — You will need to go through unusual sources to get the in- formation you need. It's time to have a heart-to-heart talk with someone who will be affected by the choices you make. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Someone from your past will help you find a way out of a current situation. Your research will help you decide whether an investment offer is worth your while. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Your ideas may not be welcome if you share your plans prematurely. Mulling over your thoughts will help you precisely present what you want to do. Horoscope By Eugenia Last THURSDAY, JULY 23 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM THURSDAY, JULY 23, 2015 2 B