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June 02, 2015

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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»My24-year- old daughter just gradu- ated from college after a difficult journey and several false starts. We are very proud of her. This summer she plans to work as a teacher's assistant at her college, then move out of state and find a job. Before she starts her summer job, she is planning to drive from the Midwest to the West Coast, camping along the way. Originally she said two friends were going with her, so I offered to switch cars and let her use mine, since my car is more reliable. I later found out that the friends backed out and she was planning to go on the trip alone. I told her I would not support the plan to camp and drive across the country alone and I was no longer offering my car or camping equip- ment for her to use. I offered to pay for a train ticket or airline ticket and rental car at her destination. She still insists on going by car and doesn't understand why I won't lend her my car. She says if I love her and want her to be safe then I would lend her my car. I say the decision to go at all is hers, and it is a poor decision. I stand by my decision. I would appreciate your advice on what you would do. —Picked-apartParent DEAR PARENT » Your logic is ironic (at best) and flawed (at worst), because you claim to be most concerned about your daughter's safety and now you have removed the primary factor that might ensure at least a measure of safety. However, I understand your choice and would have done the same (such is the logic of parenting). You should not cave in t o ma ni pu la ti o n in order to participate in a scheme to which you are entirely opposed. And, by the way, "If you loved me you would lend me your car" is a cheap trick and not worthy of a person about to start her adult life. Give your daughter AAA membership and an extra cellphone charger for her trip. Urge her to keep in touch every day. This way you will be equipp- ing her to wisely use the tools she already possess- es. This is an important trait — in camping and in life. DEAR AMY » I'm respond- ing to the letter from "Confused," who was thanked for the wrong wedding gift. Over 50 years ago, I thanked my neighbors for the sterling silver pickle fork they had given us as a wedd- ing present. They told us they had given us six teaspoons — a considerably more expensive gift. The store admitted it had made a mistake. It even let me keep the pickle fork! — Still Married DEAR MARRIED » I have received many tales of switched gifts. Thank you. Graduate's cross-country trip raises concern from parents You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Gemini(May21-June20)— Don't re-use ineffective meth- ods. Share your ideas with con- fidence and make sure everyone knows you have something new and special to offer. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Keep emotions in check in order to deal with matters effectively and efficiently. An issue that began under difficult circum- stances will turn in your favor. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Be bold. Demonstrate your talent to your superiors. Your attention to detail will make the difference between what you offer and the services of a rival. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Don't listen to critics. Trying to please everyone is pointless. Some people will find fault no matter what you do or say. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — The insight of a casual acquain- tance will provide the catalyst for a new career path. Seek out the opinions of those with ex- perience, and educate yourself about the possibilities. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Concentrate on working alongside your allies and sup- porters. Don't waste time trying to convince skeptics. You and your supporters will make head- way if you stick together. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — You will feel over- whelmed. Take your emotions out of the equation and assess your situation honestly. You can still succeed if you focus on simplicity and completion. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Someone you trusted will let you down. Rehashing the situation won't change matters; it will only postpone the inevi- table. Shake off the disappoint- ment and move on. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Carve out a comfortable niche for yourself and your fam- ily. You don't have to spend a lot of money. A comfortable, safe environment is a refuge and stress reliever during unsettling times. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Make the truth a priority. Re- neging on a promise will cause a major disruption to an important relationship. If you have been neglectful, now is the time to make amends. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Romance is in the stars. Your vivid imagination will be yearning for a new adventure or destination. This is the right time to go exploring for the hap- piness you desire. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — You can outmaneuver the com- petition if you produce instead of dispute. A war of words will waste time and keep you from finalizing plans and projects. Horoscope By Eugenia Last TUESDAY, JUNE 2 TUESDAY,JUNE2,2015 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B

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