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November 25, 2016

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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman THEDUPLEX GlennMcCoy ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»My26-year- old daughter's boyfriend just relocated to another city. Our daughter asked if he could travel the several hours to our home and stay with us over the holidays. We welcome him. They have been dating for the past two years and this separation has been hard on her (she is still attending a local college and lives at home). She plans to join him in his city next semester. The rub came when she announced his plans to bring his mid- size dog with him. I told her that since we just moved into our new house (which has hard- wood floors and Persian rugs in all the rooms) it wouldn't be a good idea, and the potential for unnecessary damage is great. Any repairs could be awkward and costly. Even pawing at a closed door would damage the finish. My daughter says the dog is very well-be- haved and they will watch it closely when they are here; however, they plan on leaving the house to visit friends and during those periods we would have to be in charge. We had a small dog for the last 17 years. She passed away prior to our moving into this new home. In all those years we never visited friends and imposed our pet on them as a condition of our visit. My wife is inclined to let them bring the dog. Am I overly concerned, since this will be a precedent- setter? —WhattoDo? DEAR WTD » I agree with you that whatever choice you make will be a precedent-setter. After your daughter moves to his city to be with her boyfriend, this dog may, in fact, become "their" dog. I am a dog lover, and I have had long-term visitors bring their dogs without incident. And then there was the episode with the mini-dachshunds. Those two little critters (but mainly their owner) more or less tainted the concept, along with the rugs. My point is that dogs ar e as v ar ie d as p eo p l e are. But you don't know this dog. And at least one member of your fam- ily (you) would be quite unhappy having the dog in your home. Don't make this your problem to solve. It is theirs. You should be friendly and firm: "I vote no on having the dog with us. If he needs to cancel his trip, I understand. However, there are kennels in the area and if he brings the dog and kennels him, you can both visit him however often you want to. You can take him to the park and on outings as you scoot around the city." If your wife and daughter overrule you, then they will be on the hook. The couple should not expect you and your wife to dog-sit, but should take the dog with them when they visit friends. Father doesn't want to set a precedent for canine visits You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Sagittarius(Nov.23-Dec. 21) — Offer help, but don't let anyone take you for granted. Do what you feel is right and keep heading in a direction that will encourage personal success. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Speak from the heart and share your plans. You will get further faster if you put an ironclad plan in place that no one can dispute. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — You'll gain respect if you voice your opinion and offer suggestions and solutions. Stand behind your word and do what needs to be done. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Learn as you go, but don't act prematurely. It's important to get all your facts straight before you put your plans into motion. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Don't allow your emotions to stand between you and an opportunity. It's up to you to bring about change. If you are intelligent and disciplined, you will get your way. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — A big opportunity can change your life, but before you jump in, you should consider what's involved and how much it will cost. Play it safe and live within your means. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Relationships should take top priority. You can bring about positive change if you discuss your feelings and concerns and the solutions you want to implement. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — A good idea will spark profes- sional interest. Before you move forward, think about what's expected of you and what you want in return. Negotiate on your own behalf. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — You know what's best for yourself, so initiate the changes that will bring you the greatest fulfillment. Speak up and form partnerships with people who share your sentiments. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Put more of your energy into professional gain. Update your resume or discuss what you have to offer with someone who can help you further your aims. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Keep the peace at home. Don't give in if someone applies pres- sure or bullies you. Stay focused on pursuits that you feel pas- sionate about. Initiate change based on your needs. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — An unusual situation at home will leave you feeling uncertain about your past. Attending a reunion or connecting with an old friend will add to your confu- sion. Proceed with caution. Horoscope By Eugenia Last FRIDAY, NOV. 25 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 25, 2016 6 B

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