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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman THEDUPLEX GlennMcCoy ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Ifellmadly in love with a wonderful, kind man. He told me that he had been with 30-plus women in his 55-plus years, primarily for sex. When he told me he really loved me and had never truly felt this way before about any other woman, it won me over, and now we are married. I am seven years younger than he is and had been divorced for about 15 years. My issue is that now my husband is not interested in having sex with me at all. He states that he has already had that and now he just wants love. I have cried, talked and asked for counseling, to no avail. I am ready to walk away. I feel ugly and undesirable. He has promised to make changes, but in 10 months nothing has changed. I love him deeply, but my heart is telling me that this is now becoming toxic. I don't understand how he can have sex with so many women he didn't love, but not with the woman he loves. Do you have any guidance? —FeelingAbandoned DEAR ABANDONED » The possibilities here are: Your husband was lying to you about his previous sexual experiences. He contracted an STD that he does not want to disclose or trans- mit to you. He has a psychological "Madonna/Whore" thing going on, where he does not associate sex with wholesome and lasting love. He has health problems affecting his libido. He is still having sex with other people on the down-low. You don't supply details about whether your husband was ever in a l on g- te r m r el at io n- ship, or whether you and he have sexually consummated your marriage. Because he won't level with you about what is going on with him, he — and you — are assuming responsibility for this as individuals, rather than tackling this challenge as a couple. Your efforts should start in the office of a counselor who could help you to explore possible solutions. If he refuses counseling, you should go alone. He should also receive a thorough medical checkup. He needs to be transparent with you about the process and results. DEAR AMY » "Reviewed" complained about being "blindsided by a horrible review" at work. I could have written that letter. HR, unfor- tunately, may not help. Sometimes HR is simply a tool of the management, and part of the problem. I think "Reviewed" should look for another job. — Also Reviewed DEAR REVIEWED » Many readers pointed this out. Thank you. Wife ponders the mystery of husband's sexual behavior You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Scorpio(Oct.24-Nov.22) — You have more options than you realize. Follow the path that will offer the greatest experi- ence, even if it's a tougher road. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Assess your current sta- tus and consider what you can do to get ahead personally and professionally. Avoid disputes with friends and family. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Keep your emotions out of decisions that involve medical, financial or legal issues. A clear head and positive action will be in your best interest. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — An aggressive approach to your professional goals will bring about positive change. Don't let a negative situation get you down. Consider it a blessing. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Pay more attention to detail when dealing with relationships or when asked to help others. Your commitment to a cause will speak volumes about who you are. Aries (March 21-April 19) — An unusual situation will leave you feeling uneasy. When in doubt, take a closer look and make a move based on your ex- tensive experience. Don't give in to bullying or persuasive tactics. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Business trips, conference calls and personal gains are all within reach. Don't feel the need to be first when being the best is what will count in the end. Learn from others' mistakes. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Spend time formulating and developing what you want to do next. The less interference you get from outsiders, the bet- ter things will turn out for you. Forge ahead with optimism. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — It's a good day to make alterations at home that will encourage family gatherings. Spending a little on entertain- ment and personal comforts is favored, as long as you don't go over budget. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — A change of scenery will give you a new outlook on life and what you want to pursue. Don't let the opinions of someone less adventurous slow you down. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Honesty will be a must, no matter what — or whom — you are dealing with. Don't be afraid to question anyone you feel isn't being upfront with you. Choose peace over discord. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Don't trust anyone with your personal interests or informa- tion. Moderation coupled with discipline will help you avoid a costly domestic mistake. Focus on children and change. Horoscope By Eugenia Last TUESDAY, NOV. 22 TUESDAY,NOVEMBER22,2016 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B