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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman THEDUPLEX GlennMcCoy ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Myhusband and I are in our 30s. We have been married for three years. We come from different back- grounds: I grew up in a large liberal city, and he grew up in a conservative farming community. We communicate decently, and overall are happy, except when politics come up. He's a veteran, and leans toward conservative views. I'm the opposite. Politics and social is- sues are the only subjects we can't discuss without becoming angry and yell- ing at each other. There are moments where I end up thinking, "How is it even possible I'm married to someone with that kind of view?" In today's political climate, these fights are happening more often. We just cannot seem to talk/debate like calm people. Our discussions start out calmly, but esca- late. We've attempted to bar political talk from the house, but the conversa- tions are inevitable as elections draw closer. How can you live and love peacefully with a spouse whose political views are so opposite of yours? Is there hope for a future for us? There are days where I cannot stand him. —LeftOutLiberal DEAR LEFT OUT » I never imagined it would come to this, but I do now be- lieve that, if maintaining a peaceful relationship is a core value for you, you should completely avoid discussing politics until after the election. My (naive) assump- tion before this election season was that loving relationships would natu- rally take precedence to political points of view. Now I feel like this: The less discussion be- tween political opposites, the better, because both sides seem to be conduct- ing trench warfare. Opposing warriors may emerge to peace- fully play a (metaphori- cal) game of battlefield soccer, but beyond a brief respite, minds will not be changed. And because positions will not shift, if you want to maintain that peaceful attitude toward your spouse, the less you k no w ab ou t hi s po l it i c a l beliefs, the better. Wait until after the election to see how you and your husband behave and relate to one another, before you make any big decisions. I'd love to hear practi- cal solutions from others. DEAR AMY » You're usually so compassionate, I was shocked at your response to "Tired Traveler," who complained about being trapped on a plane with noisy children. Everyone who travels has a right to be respect- ed by fellow passengers. — Disappointed DEAR DISAPPOINTED » "Tired Traveler" wanted for families with babies and children to be housed in the back of the plane. As a frequent traveler, I totally understand the frustration, but I have been as bothered by loud and belligerent grown-ups as I have by crying babies. Babies will eventually mature. At least, that's what I tell myself. Political discourse becomes trench warfare in this cycle You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Libra(Sept.23-Oct.23) — Keep an open mind in order to avoid an argument with someone who can influence your position or affect your reputation. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Don't overstep your bounds or feel the need to take on other people's responsibilities. A highly charged matter can alter your plans. Avoid conflict. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Your competitive attitude will lead you to the winner's circle. Someone will be jealous of you and your abilities. Don't let anyone goad you. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Take a wait-and-see at- titude. It's best not to leap into something because someone is using persistent persuasion. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Don't let anyone discourage you from discovering some- thing, learning new skills or trying something unusual. Your experimental nature will pay off. A financial gain is heading your way. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — A difficult relationship will lead to personal changes. Don't get angry. Accept the inevitable, cut your losses and do your own thing. Personal purchases will add to your appeal. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Look for a way to cut back and save. It will alleviate stress and put you in a position that will help you to do what you want to do in the future. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Live within your means, and don't worry what others do or say. You are the one who decides what you can live with. Choose what's best for you. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Take into consideration what other people have done for you and offer the same in return. A commitment can be made that will bring you closer to someone special. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Problems when dealing with family, children or people who want something from you will arise. Don't offer too much or take on responsibilities that will be costly and emotionally upsetting. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — If you reunite with old friends, you'll receive valuable informa- tion. A chance to make a move or pick up a new skill will lead to a promising future. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — When it comes to handling money matters, don't make a rash decision. Let your practi- cal side take charge in order to avoid a loss. Make love and romance your priorities. Horoscope By Eugenia Last SATURDAY, OCT. 15 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM SATURDAY, OCTOBER 15, 2016 4 B