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2A Daily News – Tuesday, June 5, 2012 Community people&events Fernandez-Davis wed But it's just the way I am How many times have you dis- missed a negative behavior in your- self or someone else because you believe it is an innate character trait that can't be helped. Are you judg- mental, a grump, opinionated or hard to deal with? Are you a door- mat, always second fiddle, too meek to stand up for yourself and always in an abusive situation? occurs. Courtesy photo Lisa Emanuela Fernandez and Cole Clinton Davis both of San Diego, were married Feb. 19, 2012, in Fall- brook at The Golf Club of California, Wedgewood Wedding Center. The ceremony was immediately fol- lowed by a reception. The bride is the daughter of Reese and Christine Fer- nandez of Red Bluff. Lisa is a 2003 graduate of Red Bluff High School where she played four years of bas- ketball. She continued her basketball career by signing a Division I scholarship with Northern Arizona Univer- sity. She recently graduated from University of Phoenix in 2011 with a MBA. Red Bluff. Petty Officer 1st-Class Cole Clinton Davis is a 2002 graduate of Red Bluff High School. He current- ly serves aboard the USS Sampson at the Naval Base of San Diego. He departed for a six-month deployment on Feb. 24. Cole has served seven years in the Navy including one tour in Afghanistan. The couple will transfer to Oahu, Hawaii in Novem- The groom is the son of Ken and Suzanne Davis of ber. SECRET WITNESS 529-1268 A program of Tehama County Neighborhood Watch Program, Inc. Setting it straight –––––––– It is the policy of the Daily News to correct as quickly as possible all errors in fact that have been published in the newspaper. If you feel a factual error has been made in a news story, call the news department at 527-2153. While the theories of nature vs nurture are true; much of your per- sonality is formed from your her- itage from mom and dad and your circumstances shape what experi- ences you have and you react accordingly. The fact remains that two different people can experience the same event and react in different ways. Over time we begin to react to life in a series of patterns. These patterns may be all we are exposed to as children and they become so entrenched in our mind that we sim- ply believe them to be truths. Some- times these are great patterns, Sun- day dinners with family, helping others, sharing toys. Other times they are destructive, hitting to resolve conflict, using intimidation as a means of control, demeaning others. There is a point in life where things shift and you are exposed to enough common society that you begin to know if your patterns of thought are accurate or flawed. That's where the power to change Once you know that there are better ways to handle life's problems and you elect to hold on to your maladaptive ways like they are your childhood blankie, you are making conscious decisions to stay stuck. If you are uttering the phrases "but it's just the way I am" or "That's just how they are" you are entering into crazy town. I've been to crazy town. I met the mayor, the town harlot and the village idiot, trust me, it's not a great place to visit. There is no personality through hitting or humiliating them and that a moms job was to do whatever the dad said, no matter what. I learned that it was nor- mal for the lead parent in the house to be unpre- dictable, mad one minute and laughing the next and that it was my job to pre- dict that future for my own safety. Faydra Rector You Matter trait, no reactionary coping skill and no anti-social behavior that you can't change. Recognition is the key. I am sure that you have lived enough life by now to have identified what behaviors you have that grate on your and everybody else's nerves. They can be changed. You can admit that you are scared, don't know it all and need to make changes. It doesn't make you weak and it doesn't negate what you sur- vived as a child. In my life I was exposed to the worst type of problem solving skills imaginable. I learned that big is bet- ter than small, children have no vote in anything in life, if people don't do what you want you can get them to ized by the time I was an adult that many of the experiences I had were not normal. I took classes, saw counselors and learned about healthy ways to be with others. You can too. You can overcome your negative traits. It's not just how you are. It's how you decide to be. Coming out of that childhood lifestyle, you can imagine the wonder- ful potential skill set I brought to a marriage, friendships and parent- ing. The truth is I real- Faydra Rector, MA is a mental health administrator, author, public speaker, educator and life coach who lives in Red Bluff. She can be reached at lifecoach@shasta.com or view her blogs at http://faydraandcompany.blogspot. com/ and http://allaboutdivorce.blogspot.com /. Local doctor celebrates national membership Deborah A. Sutcliffe, MD, from Red Bluff, has completed continuing medical education requirements to retain membership in the Ameri- can Academy of Family Physicians (AAFP), the only medical specialty organization devoted sole- ly to primary care. To be members of the AAFP, family physicians must complete 150 hours of continuing medical education every three years to learn the most up- to-date treatments, tech- nologies and medical research. 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Golf Editor Is Doubted By Wise Ones The veracity of the golf editor at this paper is questioned. A few days ago we asserted that W. H. Fisher, who didn't know a golf club from a stick of stovewood, went out onto the links here and made a score of 41. Some of the golf experts on reading that statement threw a series of fits, declaring it couldn't be done. They went so far as to declare it never had been done. — June 5, 1922 Mariah Kay Hawkins, 16, of Red Bluff was cho- sen as a state finalist in the National Miss California Pageant to be held July 27- 29 at the Marriott Hotel in Santa Clara. from across California. Mariah Hawkins' complete an extensive three-year residency pro- gram after graduating from medical school. As part of their residency, family physicians receive training in six major med- ical areas: pediatrics, obstetrics and gynecology, internal medicine, psychi- atry and neurology, surgery and community medicine. As a result, family physicians are the only medical specialists qualified to provide com- prehensive health care for people of all ages, both sexes, each organ system and every disease entity. Dr. Sutcliffe has prac- ticed in Red Bluff since 1993, after completing her residency at Northridge Medical Center/UCLA. A solo physician, she sees patients of all ages in her quiet, comfortable office near St. Elizabeth's Com- munity Hospital. Dr. Sut- cliffe is also on staff at St. Elizabeth's and has been on many committees, including serving as Chief of Staff in 2009. To maintain member- ship in the American Academy of Family Physicians, Sutcliffe is required to complete a minimum of 150 hours of accredited continuing medical education every three years. The AAFP was the first national med- ical specialty organization to set continuing educa- tion requirements for its members. This require- ment helps ensure family physician members remain educated on the most up-to-date medical technologies, research and techniques. my of Family Physicians, founded in 1947, repre- sents 100,300 physicians and medical students nationwide. It is the only medical society devoted solely to primary care. The American Acade- Red Bluff girl to compete for Miss California The National American Miss pageants are held for girls ages 4 to 18, and have five different age divisions. Hawkins will be participat- ing in the Junior Teen age division, along with other outstanding young ladies Sheet Metal Roofing Residential Commercial • Composition • Shingle • Single Ply Membrane RUNNINGS ROOFING "No Job Too Steep" " No Job Too Flat" Serving Tehama County 530-527-5789 530-209-5367 Owner is on site on every job CA. LIC#829089 No Money Down! ESTIMATES FREE favorite activities include swim team, cheerleading and enjoying family and friends. Her sponsors include Hayes Pipe & Sup- ply of Red Bluff. The winner of the pageant will receive $1,000 cash award, the offi- cial crown and banner, a bouquet of roses, and air transportation to compete in the National Pageant in a K W I K K U T S Family Hair Salon $200 REGULAR HAIRCUT off with coupon Not good with other offers 1064 South Main St., Red Bluff • 529-3540 Reg. $13.95 Expires 6/30/12 Hawkins California where she will receive a complimentary tour of Hollywood and two VIP tickets to Disneyland. The National American Miss Pageants are dedicat- ed to celebrating America's future leaders and equip- ping them with life-long skills. The pageants, unlike others, are kept age appro- priate and no girls under age 12 are not allowed to wear make-up. There is no swimsuit competition and the pageant is based on inner-beauty, as well as poise and presentation. Emphasis is put on the importance of developing self confidence, learning good sportsmanship, as well as setting and achiev- ing personal goals. Families interested in learning more about the pageant program can visit www.namiss.com. The Family of "Wally Odneal" would like to thank everyone for their cards, flowers, kind words, donations and remembrances. Dr. Dan McDaniel and the staff of Lassen Medical, Drs. William Bonus and Grace Yuk and the staff of Enloe Medical Cancer Center, Chico, St. Elizabeth's Hospice, Red Bluff and Simple Cremations of Red Bluff for their kindness and compassion during his recent illness. We would especially like to thank Services for Wally will be held in the Chapel at the Northern California Veteran's Cemetery, Igo on Tuesday, June 12, at 11:00 AM