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FRIDAY,MAY 4 Red Bluff Al-Anon, 6 to 7 p.m., Presbyterian Church, Jeffer- son and Hickory Bingo, doors at 5 p.m., early birds at 6 p.m. Com- munity and Senior Center, food available Celebrate Recovery, 7 p.m., Bethel Assembly of God, 625 Luther Road, 527-0445 or 366-6298 Kelly-Griggs House Museum presentation: His- tory of the Humboldt Wagon Road, doors open 12:30 p.m., starts 1 p.m., open to the public;311 Wash- ington St., 527-5895 Knit for Kids, 9:15 a.m. to noon, Presbyterian Church, 838 Jefferson St., 527-0372 Red Bluff Arabian Horse Show, 7 a.m. Tehama District Fairground Red Bluff Garden Club Flower Show, Tehama District Fairground Tehama County Education Foundation, board meeting, 7:30 a.m., County Department of Education, 1135 Lincoln St. Corning May Madness, 3-5:30 p.m. registration, 5:30 cruise at Transportation Center, 6-9 p.m. mixer at chamber parking lot Los Molinos Los Molinos Grange, 7 p.m., Grange Hall, 68th and Singer avenues, 529-0930 SATURDAY,MAY 5 Red Bluff 4-H Fur, Feathers and Udders, 8 a.m., Tehama District Fairground Annual Spring Luncheon, Community Cen- ter,1500 S. Jackson St., $25, Linda Ezzat, 824-6410 Cinco de Mayo Celebration, Tehama District Fair- ground Guided Bird Walk, 8 a.m., Sacramento River Dis- covery Center, free BMX racing, 5:30 p.m., Red Rock BMX Track, Tehama District Fairground, $10 Red Bluff Arabian Horse Show, 7 a.m. Tehama District Fairground Red Bluff Garden Club Flower Show, Tehama District Fairground Weight Watchers meeting,8 and 9:30 a.m., Weigh- in starts half-hour before meetings, 485 Antelope Blvd., #N, next to Bud's Jolly Kone, 1-800-651-6000 Corning May Madness, 7-10 a.m. registration and pancake breakfast, 11 a.m.and 1 p.m. burn-out contest Senior Dance, 7 p.m., Senior Center, Josephine Street, 384-2100 Los Molinos Tehama Tehama County Museum, 1-4 p.m weekends, weekday group tours by appointment, donation, 275 C St., group tours 384-2595 SUNDAY,MAY 6 Red Bluff Celebrate Recovery, 6-8 p.m., Vineyard Christian Fellowship, 738 Walnut St., 527-2449 Knights of Columbus All-You-Can-Eat Break- fast, 8:30 a.m. to noon, $4 adult, $2 child or $10 fam- ily, Sacred Heart Parish Hall, 2285 Monroe St., 527- 6310 Red Bluff Arabian Horse Show, 7 a.m. Tehama District Fairground WHEEPicnic and Prayer Circle, 4:20 p.m., 22116 Riverside Ave. Evangelist services, 7 p.m., Family Bible Church, 609 Marin St., 824-9989 Corning Tehama Tehama County Museum, 1-4 p.m weekends, weekday group tours by appointment, donation, 275 C St., group tours 384-2595 MONDAY,MAY 7 Red Bluff Bend Jelly 4-H, 6 p.m.,Bend School, 527-3101 Diabetic Support Group, 6:30 p.m., St. Elizabeth Community Hospital, Coyne Center, Columba Room English as a Second Language class, 5:30-8:30 p.m., Red Bluff High School Adult Ed building, 1295 Red Bud, 736-3308, same time Tuesday and Wednes- day and 9 a.m. to 12:20 p.m. Thursdays, free child- carefrom 9 a..m. to 12:20 p.m. classes in Richlieu Hall, 900 Johnson St. James W. Tysinger, Jr. M.D. Eye Physician & Surgeon Fellow American Academy of Ophthalmology We accept Medical, Medicare & most Insurances Office Hours: Tues-Wed-Thurs 8am-4:30pm Mon & Fri 1pm-4:30pm For Emergencies, After Hours, Week-ends, Call 530-567-5001 345 Hickory St. Red Bluff Tel: (530) 529-4733 Fax: (530) 529-1114 FRIDAY SPECIALS WHOLE TRI-TIPS Celebrating our 9 yr Anniversary WHOLE RACK OF SPARE RIBS $ starting at $ 1ST COME 1ST 2 Bud's BBQ 528-0799 Only good through April 30, 2012 OR RESERVE 22825 Antelope Blvd • Red Bluff SERVED 15 20 ALL NEW FACILITY Your One Stop Convenience Store ONE STOP 714 Walnut St., Red Bluff 5am to 11pm Friday, May 4, 2012 – Daily News 3A Money secrets destroy trust Money secrets destroy trust. It's not what you're thinking, although being sexually unfaithful to your spouse could certainly create one industrial-strength barrier to financial harmony in a rela- tionship. I'm talking about financial infidelity, which is the subject of many letters I receive. "Is there any hope for my situa- tion? I have run up more than $75,000 of unsecured debt. My hus- band doesn't know, and I will never be able to tell him. It takes my entire paycheck just to make the payments on this debt. What can I do? I don't want to file bankruptcy, but I'm beginning to think that's my only way out. Please help me." While not all financial infidelity is as serious as $75,000 of secret debt, money secrets between part- ners can grow into barriers of seri- ous proportion. Money secrets destroy trust. Spouses expect to trust each other -- financially, sexually and emotionally. Stealing and dishon- esty are things they need to watch for in the outside world, but certain- ly not within this intimate arrange- ment known as marriage. Here is my standard response to letters like this one: Imagine for a moment that it's not you but your spouse who wrote to me. How do you want me to respond? Shall I tell him to just keep quiet and do the best he can so you never find out? Or would you want me to plead with him to confess with total remorse and a willingness to make things right? vasive problem these days, I'm going to inter- ject right here the steps I offer to anyone facing this problem: Acknowledge. Call this what it is: betrayal and deceit. Show remorse. Your spouse needs to know that you are truly, sin- cerely sorry for what you have done. You probably can't apologize often enough. True remorse says, "I was wrong, and I am sorry." infidelity is such a per- Because financial the keys to financial harmony is mutual respect and accountability. Let your spouse know that you are 100 percent committed to debt- proof living. Mary Hunt Everyday Cheapskate take away the pain, but it does put recovery in motion. Understand. Remorse doesn't Promise change. If you can hon- estly say you are now committed to total financial honesty, let your spouse know your plan. Share details. Your spouse has every right to know the full extent of your financial indiscretions, reas- surance that you've stopped as well as your plans for recovery. Commit yourself fully. One of voters to consider the Vote-By-Mail option beginning Mon- day, May 7. Ballot and mail it in. grow into a major barrier. And if it's standing in the way of an open and deeply honest marriage, it's time to schedule a demolition party. Mary Hunt is the founder of www.DebtProofLiving.com and author of 20 books, including her January 2012 release, "7 Money Rules for Life." You can email her at mary@everydaycheapskate.com, or write to Everyday Cheapskate, P.O. Box 2099, Cypress, CA 90630. Elections department urges residents to vote by mail The Tehama County Elections Department encourages over ballot information right from the convenience and comfort of their own home. The following are ways for those voters who are inter- ested in using the Vote-By-Mail option to obtain their bal- lot: It is a great way for the voter to have more time to look the bubble and initial the line in the appropriate box named "Permanent Vote-By-Mail Voter." 2. Fill out the request card on the back of your Sample Police reports The following infor- mation is compiled from Red Bluff Police Depart- ment, Tehama County Sheriff's Department, Corning Police Depart- ment and California Highway Patrol. • A caller reported a man, described as in his 50s, wearing a blue T- shirt and floppy hat, was offering marijuana to cus- tomers willing to buy him a beer at the Shell Gas sta- tion on Antelope Boule- vard. Javan Joseph Brum- mett, 38, of Willows was arrested at the scene on warrants for public intoxi- cation, being a felon in possession of a firearm and possession of a con- trolled substance. Bail was set at $62,000. • Orville Daniel Mendenall, 61, of Menlo Park was booked Wednes- day into Tehama County Jail. His charges included two counts of failure to appear on a felony charge, contempt of court dis- obeying a court order, and failing to provide for a minor child. Bail was set at $150,000. • Mark Edward Close, 42, of Alturas was booked Wednesday into Tehama County Jail. His charges included selling marijua- na, obstruction of a public officer and driving on a suspended license. Bail was set at $5,000. Arrests • Sometime between Sunday and Monday, a Conex commercial stor- age container latch was broken and items were stolen from the container at Baker Road and Park Avenue. Items stolen included two Homelight chain saws, valued at $300, a Portercable band- Burglary 1. When filling out your Voter Registration Card, mark Consider counseling. There are times, although rare, that a spending prob- lem signals something much deeper, like addic- tion or serious depression. This may be a wake-up call that moves you to address underlying issues. Unresolved anger. Anger is an emotion that masks hurt or fear. Talk- ing, praying and con- fronting the issues behind the anger are the ways to dissolve it. Whenever a couple's "trust account" is violated, the choice is to either resolve the issue or let it 3. Contact the Elections Office and request a Vote-By- Mail application be sent to you or visit our office between Monday, May 7, and Tuesday, May 29, between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. to complete your Vote-By-Mail application. You can request to be Vote-By-Mail for this election only OR to be permanent and receive all future ballots and election material by mail. For more information, contact the Tehama County Elec- tions Department at 527-8190 or toll free at (866) 289-5307 or visit their office at 444 Oak St., Room C, in Red Bluff. Visit the website at: www.co.tehama.ca.us/elections or email: elections@co.tehama.ca.us. saw, valued at $300, about 100 drill bits, valued at $200, a Ryobi drill press, valued at $100, two Ryobi grinders, valued at $50, and a half-inch electric drill, valued at $100. • Scott Smith, 35, of Smith Ranches reported Wednesday that a blue 2009 Yamaha, two-wheel drive quad runner, valued at $2,500, was stolen from a shop in the 2800 block of Illinois Avenue in Corning. The suspect(s) got into the shop by cut- ting off the lock on the door. Odd • Firefighters put out a blaze to a vehicle Wednesday afternoon in the 2400 block of South Main Street. However, officers were called to help look for the driver who fled from the scene. There was no collision or evident crime, and offi- cers never found the dri- ver. It was uncertain why he ran. The vehicle was tagged with a 72-hour notice to be moved or towed. Theft • A black Toshiba lap- top computer was report- ed stolen Wednesday from a guest at the Classic Inn on Main Street. The man said he had left the computer, valued at $500, outside his room for four minutes and it was gone when he returned. Violence • A 50-year-old man reported Wednesday evening that he was assaulted by his son in the 19000 block of Jeffries Road in Cottonwood. Deputies detained a man at the scene for public intoxication. The two men had been in a mutual assault without injury and Sponsored by Downtown Red Bluff Business Association Well-Being Faire at participating merchants Street Venders Sidewalk Sale Discounts & Specials & Practitioners at 623 Main Street Saturday, June 2nd 10am-4pm Bring a friend neither wanted to press charges. Vandalism • A residence was reported vandalized Wednesday in the 200 block of Robert Avenue. • A 73-year-old man reported Wednesday his roll-up garage door and window were damaged by rocks during the night, causing $300 damage, in the 22000 block of Grove Circle. • Two tires on a 2004 Ford were reported van- dalized Wednesday in the 24800 block of Fifth Avenue. Damages were estimated at $250. • The back window of a report at about 1:30 p.m. Wednesday about a boy about 7 years old walking in the area of Rawson Road at Riverside Avenue. Red Bluff Police were, at the same time, looking for an 8-year-old missing from Metteer Elementary School. The boy on Raw- son Road was the missing child and he was taken back where he belonged. a vehicle was reported broken out Wednesday in the 11600 block of Andrews Street. Animals • A 35-year-old woman reported Wednesday that she had lost three of her goats in the 19800 block of Red Bank Road. Another person called to report she had three goats running along her fence. Dispatchers connected the two women to each other. Child found • Sheriff's deputies got Crash •A Tualatin, Ore. man and his wife were taken to Mercy Medical Center in Redding following a crash at 1:55 p.m. Wednesday on southbound Interstate 5, south of Hooker Creek Road. Yukio Machii, 73, was flown to Mercy with major injuries and his wife, Haru Machii, 77, was taken by ambulance with moderate injuries. Yukio Machii was dri- ving south in the slow lane when for unknown reasons he veered left, across fast lane and into the center divider, over- corrected by steering right and lost control. His 2006 Toyota Corolla, which had major damage, crossed both lanes, going onto the right shoulder, up a dirt embankment and over- turned.