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What can we do to send the message politely that we would like our child to be treated with respect and not teased for fun? —AgitatedMom DEAR AGITATED » Some adults are able to engage children appropriately by "kidding." Five-year-olds usually catch on pretty quickly when an adult says, "Hey, wait a min- ute — that's MY birth- day cake!" if the adult telegraphs that this is a kidding game. The adult conveys this with a smile and body language. Teasing a child until she is obviously distressed is just bullying. I'm not sure why you are so worried about being polite. After you comfort your child you should ask the adult, "Please don't tease her. You are the only person who enjoys it." DEAR AMY » One of my oldest friends lost her husband to cancer. Throughout his illness I reached out to her. I offered to run errands, or just talk. I felt pushed away — she criticized things I said or how I said them, took offense at things I did, and declined invitations — to the point where I think she doesn't want my friendship anymore. I wonder if I did some- thing to hurt her that I don't even know about. My husb and tel ls me she is dealing with her own issues. Is there something I could or should have done differently? How can I salvage a dear friendship, or should I accept that it is over? — Sad and Bewildered DEAR SAD » People re- spond along a very wide spectrum to illness, death and grief. Your friend has been through the most extreme stress you can possibly imagine. Your generous offers might have seemed intrusive to her. Your repeated efforts to apologize and restart your friendship might seem impossible to some- one whose life has fallen apart and who might be depressed. I suggest you give her a little more space; shoot her a text or email about something relatable: "The garden has gorgeous annuals right now. Can I pick you up a flat of pe- tunias ?" Don 't cro wd her. Don't give up on her. Act like your old self without expecting her to respond like her old self. Young daughter dislikes being teased by parents' friends You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Cancer(June21-July22) — Socialize with the people you enjoy most. Idle time will lead to worry. Workplace commitments will result in you neglecting the important people in your life. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — A change is as good as a rest. Update your living quarters and make your home more inviting. Host a gathering so that you can display your accomplishment. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Get a commitment in writing before you embark on a partner- ship. You don't want to be left in a compromising position if your associate reneges. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — The progress may be slow, but you will find a backer for your plan. Your intelligence and resilience will be rewarded. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Domestic tension can be reduced if you tackle a home improvement project. Use your organizational skills to delegate the work that needs to be done. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Moneymaking opportunit- ies are present, but that doesn't mean you should gamble or take unnecessary risks. Consider your financial limitations before you make a costly purchase. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Your take-charge at- titude and willingness to pitch in will gain you favors neces- sary for success. If you take part in activities you enjoy, you will receive high praise for your efforts. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Conferences, seminars and networking events are great places to look for a new partner. You can obtain professional advice regarding your concepts. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — A revised approach can turn the tables in your favor. Look into unorthodox ways to present your ideas. Be proactive when it comes to showcasing your talents. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Property and real estate invest- ments will prove to be lucrative. A casual remark to a friend or acquaintance will be misinter- preted, causing regret. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Keep the lines of commu- nication open in both personal and professional relationships. Keeping quiet about troubling issues will result in anxiety and stress. Express your feelings in a rational, unemotional manner. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Working as part of a team will be rewarding. You will begin new friendships and develop intimacy with someone who shares your vision. Paperwork delays can be expected. 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