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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Ihaveaques- tion regarding chemistry and what I've heard de- scribed as a relationship "intimacy gap." I met someone through eHarmony and have been seeing him for four months. He is kind and attentive. He doesn't smoke, drink or gamble. He has a steady, well- paying job. Neither of us has previous relationship experience, and he often thanks me for being so patient with him. However, after four months he says he is still not ready to kiss me. Is it too much to expect some physical expression? He is thoughtful in every other way, but I am very frustrated. I now feel that the spark is gone. Is there a way to ignite the chemistry? Will it come as he builds his comfort level? Should I stay with him even if I'm left unsatis- fied and jealous of other happy couples? —HopingforMore DEAR HOPING » One important element of in- timacy is the choice to be bold enough to be honest about what you want. I agree that four months is a long time to wait for a kiss. But do you hold hands, make intense eye contact, lean against each other when you walk? Do you hug each other when you part? These are all physical signs that you are both acting on attraction. Be honest with him. DEAR AMY » I invited a friend and her family (husband and two chil- dren) to vacation with us at my parents' home this summer. My parents were will- ing to host all of us (four adults and four children) in their home. While at a party at my friend's home, one guest, a friend of hers, commented that our summer plans sounded like fun. In response, my friend invited her friend and two children. My friend turned to me, in front of her friend and others, and asked if it was OK that they join us. I felt as if I were backed into a corner. I told my parents about the recent develop- ment and they were quite upset that my friend in- vited others to their home without consulting them. My parents are older and I cannot expect them to feed all of these guests. I want to put stipula- tions upon the visit, for instance, guests provide their own food, beverages, linens, etc., but how? — Taken Advantage O f DEAR TAKEN » You need to develop some backbone — if not for your own sake then for your parents'. Your friend should NEVER have extended this invitation. It was thoughtless (at best) and rude (at worst). You need to assert yourself politely and contact your friend AND her friend to say, "I'm sorry Sherri extended this invitation without run- ning it past me first. I'm afraid this is simply more people than my parents can handle . Sorry for the misunderstanding. I should have spoken up." Dating for months with no kiss, couple lacks chemistry You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Taurus(April20-May20) — Look for an artistic outlet. Home decorating or renovations will turn out well, as long as you stick to a strict budget. Don't make decisions for others. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Your emotional state will discourage personal discussions with others. You would be best off delving into expressive hob- bies. Quietly doing something you enjoy will help calm your nerves. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Don't make important decisions. Confusion and uncertainty will prevail, making it difficult to do the right thing. Exposing too much personal information will put you in a vulnerable position. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — A new friendship will blossom. You have a lot to offer, but it's important not to provoke the jealousy of someone close. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Focus on a way to increase your income. Delve into work and money matters so that you have a perfect sense of where you sit financially. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Don't allow the actions or words of others to have a negative effect on you. Relatives or co- workers will be hard to get along with. You are best off working alone. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Personal matters will require your undivided attention. You will need to take on extra re- sponsibilities, so be prepared to step up and do what's necessary. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Moderation is key. You can make financial gains, but only if you are logical, not emo- tional. Someone else's plan will not be in your best interests. Do your research before signing a contract. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — You have the energy and self-control to finish what you start. Leave yourself some time at the end of the day to spend time with someone you love. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Don't get caught up in day- to-day routines that could cloud your vision and aspirations. If you dedicate time to something you feel passionate about, suc- cess will follow. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — You are kind and depend- able, but that doesn't mean you should let anyone take you for granted. Doing things for others is commendable. Aries (March 21-April 19) — A short excursion will be eye- opening. Bring some laughter into your life by getting together with friends or by doing some- thing out of the ordinary. Horoscope By Eugenia Last WEDNESDAY, APRIL 22 WEDNESDAY,APRIL22,2015 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B