Issue link: https://www.epageflip.net/i/341783
DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman GETFUZZY DarbyConley ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Wehave two sons, "Paul," 36, and "Michael," 33. Paul finally married his long-term girlfriend "Tasha" after a long and tempestuous relationship marked by bitter breakups and tear- ful returns — with one arrest along the way. During one of Paul's breakups, Paul met a very nice girl, "Nan- cy." Tasha bulldozed her way back into the picture. Our youngest son, Michael, lives in a small cabin on our property. He ran into Nancy. They have been out three times and seem to like each other. He has not had any long-term relationships; he suffers from an autism spectrum disorder, and relationships can be dif- ficult for him. My husband and I are thrilled he is dating Nancy, but terrified of the consequences when Paul figures this out. Worse yet, when Tasha gets wind of this, life will be hell. She can be quite nasty. A sweet girl like Nancy would be no match for her. Any suggestions? —WorriedMother DEAR WORREID » You all need to wait to see if "Michael" and "Nancy" develop a longer-term re- lationship. If so, Michael should tell his brother privately — and if he asks for your help, you should mentor him from the sidelines. "Tasha's" behavior might be fuel for your son's passion, but that doesn't mean you need to show the same involve- ment or tolerance. At this point, you know enough about Tasha to anticipate trouble. This time, don't go along. Do not engage her or "Paul." DEAR AMY» I have fallen in love with a funny, smart, kind man who is good to me. He is the love of my life, and we want to plan a future together. There's only one problem: In the five years we've known each other, he hasn't kept any job for very long. I have worked hard and have gone into debt to be where I am. I have a steady job, but I don't make much money and I won't be able to support us both. I find it hard to bring up my fears about our financial future. I don't want money to be the reason we can't be together. I'm embarrassed to say it's important. Should I tell him I can't be with him until he can succeed financially? — Distraught DEAR DISTRAUGHT » Your guy is funny, smart and kind. You love him. If you two are going to be together long-term, you will be the breadwin- ner. This means you have to get a job where you make enough to support both of you while he does what he can to supple- ment this with temporary excursions into the job force. Two sons engage in romantic drama over an old flame (You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or "like" her on Facebook. Amy Dickinson's mem- oir, "The Mighty Queens of Freeville: A Mother, a Daughter and the Town that Raised Them" (Hyperion), is available in bookstores.) Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Cancer(June21-July22)— Feel free to make suggestions, but remember that others aren't obliged to do as you say. Don't be grumpy if you can't get what you want. Accept the inevitable. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — You can form a gratifying partnership with someone who shares your values and your high standards. Good communication will help you meet your target. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Don't be overwhelmed by your agenda. Take one step at a time until you reach your destination. Learn from experience and savor the moments that bring you joy. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — You need to face up to the is- sues that you've been avoiding. It's quite possible that you have blown things out of proportion. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Don't be too quick to sign on the dotted line. Your time and money are precious and shouldn't be taken lightly. Get all the facts before you consider a new project. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — You have a knack for commanding attention. Your en- tertaining way of speaking will make you an impressive leader at any event or function. Have fun and enjoy the moment. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Keep your finances and legal documents stored securely away. Don't trust anyone who is prying into your personal affairs. Listen and observe, and you will avoid meddling. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — You can accomplish plenty if you let your inhibitions go and your imagination run wild. Your plans will fall effortlessly into place. Romance and love will play a big part in your day. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Reduce the drudgery of your domestic chores by enlisting the help of friends. By spreading the work around, you will have time left over to enjoy a meal together. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Be agreeable and adaptable today. You may end up head- ing in a different direction, but going along with the crowd for now will take the pressure off you to make things happen. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — To decide the best course of action, different viewpoints are essential. Discussions with oth- ers in your chosen field will help you to make the right decisions. Network with others and learn. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Lighthearted entertainment is exactly what you need. Your friends will be delighted if you take part in an event or activ- ity that requires someone with skills like yours. Horoscope By Bernice Bede Osol SATURDAY, JULY 5 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM SATURDAY, JULY 5, 2014 6 B