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March 05, 2019

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MARCH 6-12, 2019 UCW 19 WWW.UPANDCOMINGWEEKLY.COM LITERATURE D.G. MARTIN, Host of UNC's Book Watch. COMMENTS? Editor@upandcom- ingweekly.com. 910-484-6200. Do you remember the important North Carolina connection to "A Tree Grows in Brooklyn," one of America's most loved novels? The book was written in North Carolina. Although its author, Betty Smith, based the novel on her experi- ence growing up in Brooklyn, New York, she wrote the book in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. As a struggling divorced woman with two children, she found work at the university until Harper & Brothers published her best- selling book in 1943. It usually happens the other way, with the Southern writer moving to New York to write. So you would have to think that this Brooklyn to North Carolina story is something special, one not likely to happen again. Surprise! It happened again Tuesday, March 5, when Smith's publisher, now HarperCollins, released "A Woman Is No Man," Etaf Rum's debut novel. Like Smith, Rum based her novel on her life grow- ing up in Brooklyn. Like Smith, the divorced Rum moved to North Carolina. Like Smith, she had two children. Like Smith, she found work in higher edu- cation — in Rum's case, community colleges near where she lives in Rocky Mount. Rum's Palestinian immigrant family and neighbors in Brooklyn in the 1990s and 2000s are not the same as Smith's families, whose roots were in western Europe. Still, both books deal with women's struggles to make their ways in families and communities dominated by men. The central character in the first pages of Rum's book is Isra, a 17-year- old Palestinian girl whose family forces her into marriage with an older man, Adam. He owns a deli and lives with his parents and siblings in Brooklyn. Adam and Isra move into the family's base- ment. Isra becomes a virtual servant to Adam's mother, Fareeda, who pushes the couple to have children. She wants males who can make money and build the family's reputation and influence. When Isra produces only four children, all girls, she is dishonored by Fareeda. Adam beats her regularly. The central character of the second part of the book is Deya, Isra and Adam's oldest daughter. Because Adam and Isra have died, Fareeda raises the children. Following the community's customs, when Deya is a high school senior, Fareeda looks for a Palestinian man for her to marry. Deya wants to go to college, but she is afraid to bolt her family and the community's customs. She knows of women who have stood up against male domination and then faced beatings and even death. "A Woman Is No Man" is fiction, but it is clearly autobiographical. As such, Rum explains, the book "meant challenging many long-held beliefs in my community and violating our code of silence." "Growing up," she writes, "there were limits to what women could do in society. Whenever I expressed a desire to step outside the prescribed path of marriage and motherhood, I was reminded over and over again: a woman is no man." She writes that "what I hope people from both inside and outside my community see when they read this novel are the strength and resiliency of our women." "A Woman Is No Man" will stir readers for other reasons, too. Its themes of conflict between a drive for individ- ual fulfillment and the demands of community and family loyalty are universal. Readers who have given up some life ambition because it conflicted with a family or community expectation will identify with Isra and Deya. So will those who have lost family ties when they breached community norms. The author's well-turned and beautiful writing makes reading a pleasure. Finally, her careful, fair-minded, sympathetic descriptions of complicated and interesting charac- ters give the story a classic richness. Whether or not "A Woman Is No Man" becomes a best-seller and attains the beloved status of "A Tree Grows In Brooklyn," it will, in the view of this reader, surely be a widely appreciated treasure. Could Brooklyn-North Carolina lightning strike again? by D.G. MARTIN Etaf Rum "Cumberland County's Community Newspaper"

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