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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman GETFUZZY DarbyConley ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Iama20- year-old woman who has graduated from college. I have a wonderful full- time job and am in a new relationship with a much older man. Although the rela- tionship is new, I am constantly daydream- ing about becoming pregnant. You know that baby- fever feeling that makes you want to cry about be- ing so empty and barren? I realize that since my boyfriend is older he's at a stage in his life where he is ready to start settling down. I want so much, so fast. I want the marriage, the kids, the home. But I want it after only a couple months of dating. My question is, how fast is too fast? —Impatient DEAR IMPATIENT » I can say with total honesty that I do NOT know the "baby-fever feeling that makes you want to cry about being so empty and barren." At the age of 20, describing your womb as "empty and barren" because there isn't a baby in it is extreme. I do know the feel- ing, however, of being so hyper-charged smitten that you want to make a baby together before you even know each other's middle names. This is evolutionary, hormonal and beautifully irrational. Driving at the speed of light toward marriage, babies, houses, etc., after only two months of dat- ing is unwise. In your haste to get the prize you perceive, you will miss many experiences to get to know your partner. DEAR AMY » My best friend and I recently had a falling out. In 10 years we have never really had any type of argument, we could always be open if one of us was acting up or being hostile, and then we would laugh about it. None of that hostility was ever directed at each other. My friend always needs to be the center of attention, and likes to talk about herself. She makes the plans. It is her way or the highway. Recently, I was speak- ing with her on the phone trying to tell a little story and she started speaking over me and wouldn't stop. I was actually yell- ing into the phone over and over, but she just wouldn't shut up. I stopped talking to her for a few days. When I did call her to tell her how I felt, she was apologetic and asked what she could do to make me feel less like a dumping ground for all her issues. The conversation ended well and I texted her a few days later. She sent back a one-word answer and we haven't spoken for two weeks. At 28, I am not sure what to do; should I try to mend this friendship, or move on? — Friendless DEAR FRIENDLESS » You should assume that this incident might have sent your friend into a personal re-evaluating tailspin. Keep nudging her toward contact. Ac- cept her apology. Mend AND move on. Woman has extreme 'baby fever' in new relationship You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Capricorn(Dec.22-Jan.19) — You will receive gifts. An unexpected visitor will brighten your day and take your mind off your troubles. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Your generosity and charity will enable you to do a good turn for someone less fortunate than yourself. The reward you get in return will be surprising. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — You will have to be careful about what you say to avoid a clash with someone who grates on your nerves. Keep your opin- ions to yourself. Aries (March 21-April 19) — It's time to relax and let others take charge for a change. You have helped those around you to the best of your ability, and now you deserve time to yourself. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Take a moment to be intro- spective. Reflecting on the past year will allow you to see how far you have come and how much further you wish to go. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Get together with an old friend. The interaction will help remind you of past goals and encourage you to make the effort to achieve them next year. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — You may be anticipating big vocational changes in the new year, but for now remain focused on love and family. Your career plans will unfold when the time is right. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Make today a time of joy and sharing. Consider helping out at a charitable event. The connections you make could have a positive impact on your future. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Avoid getting drawn into a confrontation. You don't have to agree with what is said, but it will help if you are diplomatic and strive to keep the peace. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Make changes to your living arrangements. Get your point across without accusations or demands. An equitable solu- tion will be found if you don't let your temper get out of control. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — A change of scenery will mo- tivate you to take a new direc- tion next year. Ask for guidance from someone you respect. Do your research and forge ahead with your plans. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Overspending, overeat- ing or drinking too much will lead to emotional blackmail and manipulation. Moderation will be the key to having a good time, free of regrets. Horoscope By Eugenia Last FRIDAY, DEC. 26 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM FRIDAY, DECEMBER 26, 2014 6 B