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Looking for love in all the app places "Remember: Finding the right person is a journey, whether online or in a different way. It can take time, and it's worth it!" says Marcia Naomi Berger, MSW, LCSW and relationship book author. – Photo by istock/Getty images By Marcia Naomi Berger, LCSW Special to the Marin IJ I f you're over 60 and looking for love, companion- ship, friendship or marriage, you may feel cau- tious about internet dating. You've heard about the scams. It's wise to be careful, of course, and to have the patience to explore your options, and you may find someone who's just right for you. Some people still balk at the idea of meeting someone online. Yet between 2005 and 2012, one- third of all couples who got married in the United States met online. Most likely, even more couples are meeting this way. Knowledge is power Prepared with knowledge about which sites exist and how to stay safe while using them, you can start your journey confidently. I'm saying journey be- cause while some lasting connections occur quickly, for most people, the process of finding the right match feels more like a marathon than a sprint. Dozens of sites exist. Some are localized, and oth- ers have a wider audience of senior singles across the nation and internationally. You can try out one or more of those listed below or ask knowledgeable friends for suggestions. It's easy to get started User-friendliness can be a factor. Not all sites offer mobile apps, and not all mobile apps are compatible with both iOS and Android devices. Once you've selected a site, making a profile and meeting potential partners are simple. Most se- nior dating sites guide you through setting up an account, adding pictures, a personal bio and other details that can help others learn more about you. Best senior dating apps for people over 60 Between 2005 and 2012, one third of all couples who married in the U.S. met online 18 October 17, 2021 Senior Style A Marketing Supplement of the Marin Independent Journal | marinij.com

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