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He also has some friends with kids, and they told him that he should just enjoy his freedom. I'm not sure where to go from here. I don't want to have any regrets. —ConfusedWoman DEAR CONFUSED » Your husband might never match your level of enthusiasm over having a baby. His reservations are normal and natural — and smart. But is he willing to do this with you anyway? If he is willing to take this leap, then you should take it with your eyes wide open. Understand that this reluctant father may never come around. You migh t alway s be the primary parent, and he might perform the bulk of his parenting from his perch on the couch. The thing about having children is that it never works out the way you thought it would. But one important les- son parenthood teaches people is the power of surrendering to the possibilities. I would love to hear from men who have faced this question. DEAR AMY » "Distressed" wasn't sure how to split costs for their vacation gift to their parents. All costs should be determined up front. My sister-in-law nailed me several times with this trick. We'd agree to chip in o n a g ift, an d th en she'd come up with an "irresistible" add-on. It was usually about another 50 percent of the original share! — Lesson Finally Learned DEAR LEARNED » It is best to anticipate and agree on all costs before- hand. And — not to share the cost of alcohol. Drink- ers should pick up their own tab. Couple wonders if time will ever be right for having a baby You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@amydickinson. com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Pisces(Feb.20-March20) — Don't let uncertainty lead to impulse. You must stabilize a situation before you can turn it into something workable. Trust in your wisdom. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Keep your personal life and business affairs secret. Emo- tional issues will infiltrate your professional life if you are too transparent. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — You'll be interested in the things a loved one or child enjoys do- ing. If you share your feelings, you'll resolve anything that's been bothering you. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Emotional situations will develop if someone isn't being honest. You are best off ques- tioning rather than assuming. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Someone will confuse you by sending mixed signals. When in doubt, be blunt and find out exactly where you stand. A cultural event or retreat will be enlightening. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Don't feel the need to share money matters with others or divulge information that might leave you in a vulnerable posi- tion. Uncertainty will kick in if you act impulsively. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Share your ideas and emotions, and make suggestions that will help solve problems involving older family members or badly managed situations. Honesty is your best policy. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Problems concerning a friend, relative or legal matter will surface. Don't share your feel- ings regarding issues that could end up hurting your reputation or bank account. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Keep your emotions in check when mulling over work-related matters. It's best not to get up- set. Look for a workable solution and present it in an innovative way if you want to excel. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Offering frank opinions and straightforward answers will help you avoid misinterpre- tation. Emotional manipulation will be viewed harshly. Stick to the truth and avoid conflict and accusations of meddling. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Do your own thing and be accountable for the choices you make. Avoid anyone trying to take advantage of your position or connections. Protect what you've acquired. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Don't hesitate to stop someone from prying into your personal affairs. Do what you can to help others, but not at the expense of your reputation. Horoscope By Eugenia Last SATURDAY, MARCH 11 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM SATURDAY, MARCH 11, 2017 4 B