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She doesn't like this man, and has no desire to move there. Any thoughts on what I can do? —ConcernedMom DEAR MOM » You can't legally control your adult daughter's choices, and so your efforts should be geared toward your granddaughter's needs. Try not to panic, and try not to make any particular assumptions about what choice your daughter might make. Say to her, "You're an adult, and you're a parent. You must always put your daughter's needs first." You might choose to consult with a lawyer specializing in custody issues and family law to see what you can do for your granddaughter, if your daughter makes the choice to move into a home that is patently unfit for her. Always advocate for your grand- daughter. DEAR AMY » We plan to host a neighborhood drop-in. Two of the couples we want to invite despise each other, the husbands having almost come to blows once in the past. We like these couples and want to include both, but do not want to play the role of referee at our party. Any ideas? — In the Middle DEAR IN THE MIDDLE » You should tell both couples that you have an open household and that you will not choose betw een them, and t hat you will not let their chal- lenges reconfigure your open hospitality. They may each independently choose to stay away, or one couple may leave if they see the other couple there. For now, assume that if they both attend, they will make an effort to avoid one another. If there is a problem at your home, don't me- diate. Simply ask them to leave. Mother worries about her daughter's taste in men You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@amydickinson. com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Capricorn(Dec.22-Jan.19) — You'll be torn between what you want to do and what you should do. If you decide to make a move, be sure to seek any ap- proval you may need as you go forward. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Get in touch with someone from your past. It will remind you of old dreams and spark a renewed interest in something you used to enjoy doing. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Look for alternative ways to bring in more cash. You will have to make compromises in order to reach your goals. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Stay active and stick with it until you finish what you start. Leaving anything undone will lead to complaints. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Get involved in something you find rejuvenating or helpful. Learn as you go and build expe- rience that will encourage you to be a better person. Romance is highlighted. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Set reasonable goals and get into a routine that will help you reach them. Taking care of personal business and affairs of the heart will give you peace of mind. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Making last-minute decisions or changes based on your emo- tions will backfire. Keep your life simple and be moderate in all that you do. Do your utmost to protect partnerships. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Don't hesitate. If you want something, go after it whole- heartedly. Strive for excellence and productivity in order to surprise and impress someone who can influence your future. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Changes at home could be unnerving and cause friction, stress and overspending. Step back from whatever situation you face and consider what you want before moving forward. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Keep your life simple in order to avoid backlash. Refuse to let anyone talk you into something you don't want to do. A change of heart will lead to a change in lifestyle. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Positive changes at home or to your methods will help you establish what you want to do next personally and profession- ally. A move or lifestyle change is apparent. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Make a change that will encourage you to do what's best for you instead of acting in accordance with others' wishes. If you are true to yourself, you will excel. Horoscope By Eugenia Last THURSDAY, JAN. 5 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM THURSDAY, JANUARY 5, 2017 4 B