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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman THEDUPLEX GlennMcCoy ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»"Burt,"my best friend in college, and I always got along like brothers. After college, we stayed in the same town, where I met my future wife. He was the best man at our wed ding. We remained best buddies. After my wife and I moved to the East Coast, Burt and I got together whenever we could, over holidays, vacations and family gatherings. I always felt that we would be best friends forever. That changed a few years ago. Out of no- where, I received a letter from him. He said, "I don't want to be your friend anymore." I was shocked and hurt. I wrote him a letter telling him that I apologized if I had ever done anything to hurt him, and detailed all the fun we had together in the past, but I was completely stumped. Finally, he sent me a return letter. All it said was "It has more to do with me than you." Since then, I haven't heard a word from him. Since he has never been married, the only thing I can think of is that he loved me (in more than a brotherly way), and that when I moved away, it hurt him deeply. Is there anything I can do to win back his friendship? —Confused DEAR CONFUSED » More clarity about what is re- ally going on with "Burt" might help you to renew your long-standing friend- ship, but if your theory is correct, then the burden is on him to somehow change in order to cope with having a platonic relationship. He doesn't sound inclined (or able) to do this. Be aware that your friend could be wrestling with any number of is- sues, including disagree- ing with various life choices you have made. (He also might be in love with — or dislike — your wife.) Unfortunately, if some- one says he does not want to have a relationship with you, you are forced to absorb the hurt, even if y ou don 't und erst and the reasons behind it. You could contact him again, sending him a newsy and neutral update about your own life and asking him to keep in touch, but pushing too hard — even for answers — isn't wise, and may make things even more painful for him. DEAR AMY » This advice is for "Left Out Liberal," who was struggling to get through this election sea- son with her conservative husband. I participated in the last presidential election by delivering pamphlets and encourag- ing people to vote. One of the first things we were taught was NOT to ar gue with anyone. In my 72 years, I have never seen anyone's political views changed as the result of an argument. I suggest she remember what qualities about her husband made her marry him in the first place and simply refuse to argue about this. — Volunteer DEAR VOLUNTEER » Sound advice. College 'bestie' wonders why man abruptly ends friendship You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Scorpio(Oct.24-Nov.22) — Think outside the box and jump at the chance to use your skills in new ways. A creative approach to whatever you do will lead to recognition and rewards. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — If there is something you want to keep secret, don't share it with anyone, including your closest confidantes. Watch your costs and mind spending habits. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Don't make assumptions when your best option is to stay focused on taking care of your responsibilities. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — It's a good day to update per- sonal papers, sign contracts or hash out agreements. Romance is highlighted. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — You'll have trouble getting to the bottom of a personal matter. Emotional deception and ulte- rior motives are apparent. Ask pointed questions. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Dealing with institutions will be emotional and difficult. An un- expected offer or gift will come from an unusual source. Don't overreact, overspend or give in to indulgent tendencies. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Be careful when dealing with volunteer groups or people looking for handouts. Your time, money and effort are best used for personal gains, not for help- ing others. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — You'll be drawn to someone who may take advantage of you. Don't let your emotions take charge and cost you a promo- tion. Don't mix business with pleasure. Look out for your best interests. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — An unusual offer will tempt you. Reach out to someone you've collaborated with in the past and you will be given more options. Focus on a creative endeavor. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — You need to double-check im- portant papers and deals or your financial status. An unexpected development will lead to ques- tions. Personal improvements will boost your ego. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Complications will surface between you and an older or younger member of your family. Use your intelligence and read between the lines in order to get to the root of the problem. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Plan a get-together with friends or someone from your past whom you can't stop thinking about. The information you receive today will have an emotional impact on you. Horoscope By Eugenia Last WEDNESDAY, NOV. 2 WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 2, 2016 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 5 B