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All of our arguments end with her telling me she is leaving. The next day all is well, until I do something to upset her and the cycle starts all over again. I think when she gets a job she will feel better; unfortunately until then, I spend every moment worried that she's going to leave. She travels back to New Mexico for a few days three times a month. I'm alone while she is gone, yet while I'm at work she complains that she's alone. I have been using work leave to be with her. I'm worried and scared. I don't want to lose her. Do you have any suggestions? —LostintheBigCity DEAR LOST » Your wife seems to have agreed with the choice to move; she now has an obligation to try harder to adjust to this change — even if she suspects she might have made a mistake. It would be hard for her to find a job if she is in town only sporadically. A counselor or life coach could help her cope with her feelings of sad- ness and anger. She also sounds depressed. You two joining a local civic, social or religious orga- nization together might help to orient her toward your new home. At this point, you are the only person working. Your wife should not hold the threat to leave over your head when you are having an argument. This is emotional blackmail. At some point, you may have to call her bluff. She ca n eit her sta y o r go. DEAR AMY » You respond- ed to "Mystified" that a person could rent goats to mow their lawn, if they are eco-friendly. This option is not eco- friendly, as it takes more gasoline to transport the goats to and from your property than it does to mow your own lawn. — Eco-Conscious DEAR CONSCIOUS » I live next door to a large flock of sheep. They occasion- ally leap over their fence to do some mowing and flower eating on my lawn. I'm grateful that they provide their own transportation. Husband heartbroken over wife hating the big city life You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Virgo(Aug.23-Sept.22) — A move will do you good. Refuse to let your emotions surface and stop you from adapting to new possibilities. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Speak up and promote what you have accomplished. Travel, communication and progressive education will pay off. Romance will improve your life. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — If you are straightforward, you will convince others to see things your way. Don't be afraid to take a leadership position or offer unique solutions. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — You'll be taking on more than you can handle if you get into a debate with someone. You must accept that everyone is entitled to an opinion. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — You are the one in charge of your progress. Do things for yourself in order to avoid being disappointed by what others try to do for you. Only you know how you feel. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — How you present your- self will be important. Discipline and hard work will pay off and lead to a change in the way you feel and how you are treated. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Use your imagination when you want to get things done. People observing your actions will marvel at your intelligence and foresight. Apply for some- thing that excites you. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Don't let an emotional situa- tion stand in the way of getting things done. Being intent on finishing what you start will increase your reputation of honesty and integrity. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Set the record straight. Share your thoughts, feelings and plans. A trip or networking func- tion will give you a platform to show your true potential. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — You'll be torn between what you want to do and what you should be doing. If you are organized, you will be able to fit both into your schedule. Romance will help you rejuvenate. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Problems will escalate if you indulge or let your moodiness take control. You are best off working on a creative project independently to avoid an un- wanted conflict. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — A last-minute trip, or a decision to engage in a challenge or bring about a change that will make a difference to you and your loved ones looks promising. Romance is highlighted. Horoscope By Eugenia Last SATURDAY, SEPT. 10 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 10, 2016 4 B