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She still walks around, but that's not our little girl, she's that guy's girlfriend. Any suggestions? —Grieving DEAR GRIEVING » Given the rapid slide your daughter has experienced with this man, it is pos- sible that they are caught up in our current national drug crisis, where opioid use is described as an "epidemic." Elements pointing to the possibility that your daughter is taking drugs are: Isolating herself from you, leaving her job, los- ing her possessions and burning through money. Don't give up on her. Don't give her money or pay her debts, but if she needs food and shelter, offer it to her. Offer her professional help. People involved in toxic relationships don't want their family mem- bers to witness or inter- fere; of course she will push you away. Your daughter has the right to make choices — even terrible and un- healthy ones. Don't dwell on the idea that she needs to remain your "little girl." Do be completely transparent about your extreme concern; tell her she is worth so much more than the life she seems to be leading. Tell her that when she is ready, you will be there for her. Keep your heart open, and don't make this crisis about your loss, make it about her health and welfare. DEAR AMY » You com- pletely blew it in your answer to "Upset Coach," who left fifth-graders in the gym (with other parents present) when an aggressive parent became confrontational. You agreed with the school's choice to repri- mand this coach for leav- ing the gym. I dis agree. Coach diffused the situation by leaving; he or she kept them safe. — Parent DEAR PARENT » This coach was responsible for the children's safety while they were in the gym. Leaving them with a belligerent parent who is yelling at them does not assure their safety — even if there are other adults present. Parents fret over daughter's extreme personality change You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Virgo(Aug.23-Sept.22)— Align yourself with people who are unique and have something interesting to offer. Use your insight to guide you where part- nerships are concerned. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Look outside your usual param- eters when it comes to how you use your skills. A change may not be your first choice, but it will encourage growth. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Don't stagnate while change is going on all around you. Embrace the new and vibrant future with optimism. You will be valued for your contribution. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Listen carefully and digest what you hear before you respond. A second chance will not be granted, so be precise. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Be aware of what others do, and be open to doing things dif- ferently. A practical application presented in a unique way will give you the edge when dealing with others. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — You must use your emotional energy in a creative manner or you will end up in a sticky situ- ation. Someone will try to push you into making a decision you aren't ready to make. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Money will come your way from an unusual source. If you are vocal about the way you feel or want things done, it will help you divert negativity and bossiness. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Turn up the volume and put your plans into motion. You can stabilize your financial situation if you build a good relationship with someone you love or want to partner with. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — An opportunity to improve your skills, attitude and future options will develop if you get involved in community events or educational pursuits. Share your feelings openly. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Put your heart into a project or job you've been given. Take on a physical challenge that allows you to show what you can do instead of just talking about it. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Make a point to mingle with people who are moving in the same direction as you. The information you gather along the way will set the stage for what's to come. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — An emotional matter should be dealt with before you move forward with your plans. Look for a creative solution that will appease everyone. Balance and equality will be required. Horoscope By Eugenia Last TUESDAY, SEPT. 6 TUESDAY,SEPTEMBER6,2016 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B