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What should I do? —Worriedin Wisconsin DEAR WORRIED » This is not necessarily a binary choice. You can choose to stay quiet now, but change your mind, later. It might be best for you to communicate your next thoughts in text form. You can write: "First, I want you to know that I appreciate your honesty. Secondly, please don't ever ask me to keep a secret from our parents. That's not fair and I will make my own choice about what to do. I am protective of you. I want you to know that there are risks to what you are doing. You risk not gradu- ating (if you are caught), but you also risk other things you have worked for. Soon you will be on your own and I hope you will make healthier choices. Your record shows how smart you are. I hope your behavior will demonstrate that." After communicating directly with him, leave it alone. If this is the worst thing this young man ever does, he'll be OK. DEAR AMY » I am current- ly seeing a man who has two jobs, one as an "ev- eryday civilian" and one in the National Guard. We have been see- ing each other for seven months. I just learned that he may face a deploy- ment in the next year. I am proud of him. I love him and he loves me. I don't know how to com- municate how I feel. My anxiety levels have risen in the past few weeks because of this. He has noticed a change in me. I fell in love with this man without a second thought. I don't want to leave him over this because he is serving his country. However, I do not know how to live the life that is approaching. I need advice. — Worried DEAR WORRIED » The most important thing you can do is to communicate with your guy about what might be in store for you. The National Guard offers information to help you start this conversa- tion. You should also seek advice from experienced people on this side of deployment. Check www. jointservicesupport.org. Big sister worries about her baby brother's daylong toast You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Gemini(May21-June20)— Take a moment to size up your situation before you make a de- cision. A mistake will be costly and will put you in a precarious position. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Emotions will escalate if you get involved in a joint financial ven- ture. Secrets will not be easy to keep. An unexpected encounter will put you on the spot. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — If you help others, you will benefit as well. A change in the way you do things will be satisfying. A strong tie to someone special will lead to greater commitment. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Too much of anything will set you back. You will need to keep your head if you don't want to be stuck with something. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — It's a good day to travel. Discuss your ideas and learn from someone. You'll prosper if you are dedicated to reach- ing your goals. Personal improvements will be enlightening. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — You can be nice without people taking advantage of you. Set boundaries and carry on doing what you enjoy most. An investment will turn sour due to misinformation. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Look at all the possibili- ties before you make a move. Change is necessary, but your decision must be made for the right reason. A partnership looks promising. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — A change at home or to your lifestyle will not be ideal. Look for the positive in what- ever situation you face in order to excel. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Money matters are improv- ing. A chance to make positive changes at home or elsewhere is apparent. Romance will brighten your day and lead to a joint venture. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Think before you take action. Nothing will be as it ap- pears. You'll be misled if you let someone else take care of your personal or professional affairs. Promise only what you know you can deliver. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Romance, travel, intrigue and a change in your finan- cial situation are all prevalent. Embrace change, and share your thoughts and feelings with someone you love. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Professional gains, partnership improvements and improve- ments to your lifestyle and reputation are all possible. Stay focused on what's important. Horoscope By Eugenia Last TUESDAY, JUNE 14 TUESDAY,JUNE14,2016 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B