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We have talked about me getting a job and I told him I would be doing everything I already am, plus working, and he still wouldn't help around the house. He says, "Yep, you're right." He really doesn't think he should have to do anything because he works! He doesn't appreciate me at all. I've told him multiple times that I feel more like his mom, but he doesn't care. We were considering having another baby, but I really don't want to have to care for two babies and a man-child. He doesn't even want to go to church with me one day a week. Please help! —MomtoMan-Child DEAR MOM » First off, double-up on your birth contro l. Yo u shoul d NOT have another child with this man. You can cut down on some of these mom-like chores by not doing them. Why are you prompting this person to brush his teeth? Why are you doing his laundry and cleaning out the car? Some of this dynamic might change if you sim- ply stop treating him like a toddler. You two are adults. You are parents. He needs to grow up and act like it. If he is going to claim exhaustion anyway, then he needs to work more hours. Why isn't he work- ing full time? I also think that you should pursue a job (and further your educa- tion). Take a night class at your local community college or look for a shift job you can take while he is home with the baby. You have chosen a poor life-partner. You should not be waiting on him hand and foot, but meeting some of your own goals, because I think there is a strong likelihood that you are going to end up on your own, whether or not this guy is in the house. DEAR AMY » Regarding your answer to "Con- fused," the woman who asked if her boyfriend and she should share birth control expenses: If my girlfriend doesn't want to share the cost of my condoms, should I find another gal? — No Name DEAR NO NAME » You should consider it. 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Expanding your family will improve life. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Take a step in a direction that promotes a healthy and prosper- ous life. Engage in events and activities that will encourage positive change in your lifestyle. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Keep an open mind and be willing to do things differently if it means working alongside people you respect. Romance is highlighted. Plan a short trip or adventure for two. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Don't let unfinished business linger on. The sooner you put your responsibilities behind you, the easier it will be to pursue more enjoyable activities. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — You'll accomplish plenty if you work from home or engage in something interesting that sparks your imagination. Plan a fun-filled evening and express your feelings and intentions. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Don't give in to some- one using persuasive tactics. 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