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Is it wrong to throw away a relationship that has lasted decades because of some occa- sional unacknowledged unpleasantness from a person who is generally quite lovely? Are we being too sensi- tive and should I talk to my friends about this? —UnabletoForget DEAR UNABLE » There is likelihood that your friend is forgetting her alcohol-fueled behavior. Equally likely is that the couple simply doesn't want to acknowledge that she is a mean drunk. Your choices are to re- act in the moment: "Um, we're going to leave now ...", to react the next day: "I want you to know that we do NOT enjoy watch- ing you pick fights with everyone when you've had too much to drink," and to react through a very carefully worded note say- ing, "We've known you for years. We care about you. But when you're drinking, you have lashed out and have been rude to all of us. We want to continue our friendship, but we won't tolerate this." DEAR AMY » My husband and I are expecting our second child. Our son is 4 years old and we didn't initially think we would have a second child, so we haven't kept many of his baby items. We have very few things for the new baby. We would like to host a baby shower and have a registry. We plan to ask only for a few smaller things. Some family members say it is bad etiquette to h ave a sec ond baby shower and ask for gifts. What etiquette should we follow when throwing a second baby shower? — Expecting Up North DEAR EXPECTING » There is nothing at all "wrong" about celebrating the impending arrival of a second baby. BUT it is not at all cool to host a shower for yourselves. You see the awkwardness here of having a party for yo ur s el v es a nd d i r ec ti n g guests to a gift registry. As you well know, a new baby's needs are actually pretty modest — a basket to sleep in, some onesies and blankets, a car seat and a stroller. Craigslist is a good way to find used baby equipment. Friends don't want to be target for drunken rages You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Scorpio(Oct.24-Nov.22) — A financial gain through loan repayment, found money or cutting corners will give you the means to travel. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Updating your qualifica- tions and resume will allow you to take advantage of what's being proposed. Advancement is within reach. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Be honest when it comes to your expectations and inten- tions. You will give the wrong impression if you just blindly follow the crowd. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Keep all matters up to date with financial, medical or legal institutions. Penalties will be incurred if your personal docu- ments are lacking information. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Careful investing will lead to financial gains. Your pleas- ant attitude will make you an interesting dinner partner or business associate, so accept any intriguing social invitations. Aries (March 21-April 19) — A physical challenge will help distract you from troubling emotional issues. Update your residence to increase your com- fort and to put a positive spin on the way you think and feel. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Give your spirit a lift by spend- ing time with close friends or younger family members and it will counter any depression you've been feeling. Games or contests will provide a diversion. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Don't allow others to take credit for your work. An innovative idea regarding domestic improve- ments will be prosperous. Your unorthodox method of problem- solving will come in handy. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — A romantic relationship will need some tender, loving care. Compassion and patience will help to get through a tempo- rary setback. Don't let anyone meddle in your private affairs. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — A practical fundraising idea will bring you recognition. Involve yourself in community activities where you can highlight your novel concepts. An unexpected expense will catch you off guard. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Putting in extra hours at work will be a viable solution to avoid a personal situation at home. Your employer will appreciate the effort, and you can momen- tarily reduce your stress. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Changes you make today will have a positive effect on your future. Embrace an opportu- nity to travel and you will gain insight into other cultures. Horoscope By Eugenia Last SATURDAY, OCT. 31 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM SATURDAY, OCTOBER 31, 2015 8 B