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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Iamarecent college graduate. I have landed an incredible job in the industry that I would like to be in. I'm l uck y, but ther e is one thing: I am not satis- fied. There are so many things that I want to do. I feel like my life is controlled by my job and I am holding off on doing things. I want to travel the world, run an ultra- marathon, "work" writing a travel blog and hike every single day. I want to "work" every day doing something I love. I don't want a tradi- tional job, but I feel stuck where society says I need to be, and I can't get out of this cycle. I would love to know what you think. —Unhappyand Successful DEAR UNHAPPY » You don't say how you arrived at this knowledge of what "society" wants from you. No one is tying you to the fast track. No one wants you to linger, depressed, at a professional job, which someone else might treasure. Your life belongs to you. And it unspools one decision at a time. You could use this period to research careers that are closer to your dream skill set. Also, except for traveling the world, all of your goals are achievable while you are working. I suggest you get started as soon as possible. For inspiration, read writer Po Bronson's wo n d er f ul g ui d e: " Wh a t Should I Do with My Life?: The True Story of People Who Answered the Ultimate Question" (2005, Ballantine Books). DEAR AMY » I am a recent widower. I lost my spouse after a long ba ttle with disease. Through it, I was preparing myself for the end. The end was some- thing I could not prevent. I've always had a prac- tical outlook on things I cannot control. I feel ready to move on. I sup- pose the lack of intimacy during a long illness is driving my desire to meet new people. And, being in my 60s, I'm sure a fear of being alone is part of it. But how does one explain this to a potential new companion without seeming cold and selfish? I am not mention- ing how much time has passed since my wife's death, because it is the concept of moving on that concerns me, not the number of months since she passed. — Out There Too Soon DEAR OUT THERE » You should be honest with new people, regardless of how you think they may react. Keep in mind that any potential romantic partners may decide that you are not ready — not because they are insisting that you must grieve, but because you are ripe for a rebound. Some people don't mind being in a rebound relationship, but for others, being the first relationship after a loss is emotionally risky. I hope you will pursue whatever relationships you wish, as well as give yourself lots of time and space to sort through all that you are thinking. Recent college grad ponders how to live life authentically You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Libra(Sept.23-Oct.23) — Be a participant, not an observer. Put your network- ing skills into action whenever possible, and present what you have to offer. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Someone you depend on will let you down. Don't blame your- self or be bitter; just be more cautious in the future. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — You will be a magnet in the social scene. Make the most of your popularity. New relation- ships will develop with people from diverse backgrounds. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Emotional turmoil will cloud your judgment. Avoid confron- tations, and direct your en- ergy toward obtaining financial security. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — It's important to bolster your personal relationships. Strive to be a better partner, friend, colleague or confidant. A family member will seek your opinion on a private matter. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Keep your plans under wraps for now. Promises made to you will not be kept. A business or pleasure trip will bring unfore- seen benefits. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Joint ventures and other collaborations will be success- ful. It will be the perfect time to take your romantic relationship to the next level. An unexpected expense will make a dent in your savings. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — You will have to do some digging to get to the bottom of a personal dilemma. Don't as- sume to know what anyone else wants. Resolution is possible once the facts are clear. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — You can make substantial improvements, but don't get too carried away or your budget will suffer and your entertainment fund will be limited. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Deal with small matters that seem to be constantly dragging you down. Once your schedule is clear, you will be able to find time for friends and recreational activities. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Love and romance should be high on your agenda. Your appeal will bring favorable recognition and compliments. Make the most of your popular- ity by accepting any invitations you receive. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Don't miss out, because your stress level and past regrets are keeping you from enjoying your success. Material gains will be yours if you take advantage of a tip that comes your way. Horoscope By Eugenia Last WEDNESDAY, OCT. 14 WEDNESDAY,OCTOBER14,2015 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B