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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Theday after he was laid off from his job, my boyfriend received the offer of a life- time for a new job, 1,000 miles away. This involves a huge bump in pay and a promotion to manage- ment. He's a 24-year-old college dropout, so this is huge. We have only been together for three months, but we are very much in love. He said that the first thing that came to mind when he started weigh- ing his options was our relationship. I am very supportive of his ambitions and goals; I feel the same way about my own future career. I told him that I could never ask him to give up this opportunity for us. I know that I'd end up feel- ing guilty. What I need to know is ... should I go with him? My gut instinct was to let him know that I'm not financially able to move. I'm a 24-year-old nurs- ing student who works two part-time jobs and still lives at home. I have loans, a car payment, medical debt and I had to take a break from school because of family stress and lack of money. Even though my heart says I should go, I feel it's an immature decision to make. My brain says, "moving across the coun- try for a guy you haven't even known a whole year — are you crazy?!" I got engaged to my childhood sweetheart when I was 18. My family doesn't trust my judg- ment with men because of my track record ... and I worry that they're right. What's your advice, Amy? —Confused DEAR CONFUSED » My advice is to trust yourself and this relationship enough to marry the wisdom of your head and heart together into this idea: "I believe so much in this guy, this relation- ship, and myself — that I'm going to enjoy a long-distance relationship until we get on our feet." Separation is chal- lenging, but being in a long-distance relationship can also yield benefits — the time and space for each of you to establish yourselves professionally and concentrate on your own growth and develop- ment, while also being in a supportive relationship with each other. You are trying to learn from your previous ex- periences, because that's what mature people do. Give yourself a bench- mark several months away to revisit the idea of moving. Do not sacrifice your own goals. DEAR AMY » As we learn in our community of yet another death associated with teenage drinking, I want to applaud your tough answer to "Dis- traught Mom," whose 15-year-old daughter wanted to attend "keggers." Kids that age are not mature enough to make this sort of choice. That's why parents need to say, "No!" — Grateful and Grieving DEAR GRIEVING » Many parents contacted me with similar feedback. Thank you all. Should girlfriend make a big move for her guy's new job? You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribpub.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Libra(Sept.23-Oct.23)— You may feel restricted by your circumstances, and a chance to take a break and think matters through would do you good. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Don't allow anxiety or doubt to stop you from making the most of your skills. Your confi- dence will get a boost when you receive a positive response from your peers. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — A chance encounter with an old friend will give you valu- able insight into your financial future. Learn from those who've experienced a similar journey. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Someone will try to take advantage of your sympathetic nature. Offer advice when you are approached for a handout. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — You are extremely loyal, but it's time to free yourself of associates who are making you look bad. Constantly bailing out careless or inconsiderate people will hurt you mentally. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Make sure you fully under- stand what is expected of you before you make a commitment or sign a contract. Don't agree to something that might jeopar- dize your security. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Lady Luck is in your corner. If you play by the rules, you can expect monetary gains through investments or games of chance. It is vital that you not neglect your health. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Younger family members or ac- quaintances will cause distress. Contain your temper. Reiterate the rules to get your household back on track. Romance is high- lighted. Make special plans. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Don't limit yourself to the old familiar routine. Spice up your life by taking part in recreational or educational activities. A long-lasting friend- ship will result from events you attend. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — You will be pleasantly surprised by an unexpected change. Being inflexible or rash will limit your options. If you let matters un- fold naturally, you will enjoy the outcome. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — A big break is heading your way. Let everyone know what you have to offer. Your passionate approach will put you in the run- ning for an employment opportunity. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — You won't make any progress if you wait for others to help you. Do everything yourself so you can take full credit for what you achieve. Horoscope By Eugenia Last TUESDAY, OCT. 13 TUESDAY,OCTOBER13,2015 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B