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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Myfirst marriage ended badly. We simply grew apart and infidelity entered the picture (on her part). The good things I got out of that marriage are two great daughters. Fast-forward to the present. I have been married to a woman for seven years now. She is beautiful, smart, and indepen- dent. We have a wonderful 4-year-old. Unfortunately my wife has informed me that although she consid- ers me a great father and a great husband, she has lost her "spark" for me. She has admitted to an affair last year. She also told me that she feels something is missing from our marriage, but cannot define what it is. I still love her with all of my heart and want to make things right. She has agreed to start couples counseling. We have been to one session. I thought that she may be depressed, but my wife denies that she is. My question is, do you think I have any hope that my wife will love me again the way I love her? —HeartbrokenUp North DEAR HEARTBROKEN » Your wife might not ever love you the way that you love her, and that is because two people rarely love in the same way at the same time. You and your wife can come back from the brink. Couples counseling will help, but it can only work if both parties are fully committed. One thing I notice is that your previous mar- riage ended badly because you and your former wife "grew apart." And now this same dynamic hap- pened again. Infidelity impacting one relationship is a personal tragedy. When it happens twice, it's a pat- tern. In addition to cou- ples counseling, I hope each of you see a coun- selor separately. You are not responsible for your wife's choices, but insight about your own behavior can lead to change, which can positively affect you — and also your marriage. DEAR AMY » A co-worker's daughter is getting mar- ried and I have been invited to the wedding. We have had our differ- ences and I am surprised to have been invited. A few other co-workers (and myself) have never even met the bride or groom. I feel that it is hypocritical to attend this wedding simply because we work together. We are not friends, and I do not want to go. Other co-workers who have been invited ques- tion the invitation too. What is your take on this? Should I feel obligated to go? — Miffed Co-worker DEAR MIFFED » You seem to think that it is nervy for your co-worker to in- vite you to her daughter's wedding. The gall! Of course, no one is forcing you to attend an event. But you should know that this invitation is important to the person who issued it. It is a kind gesture. When you decline the invitation, I hope you will do so politely. Husband finds himself in sad pattern of infidelity by wife You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Cancer(June21-July22) — The risk to your health is not worth the added responsibility. An interesting proposal will give you additional free time. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — You will not have a problem recruiting partners for your next big project. Physical activity will help to relieve the tension building up. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — No one is placing pressure on you; it's you who is fretting about what others think and do. Get your life in perspective and stop worrying about nothing. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — You'll have trouble commu- nicating today. This would be a good time to catch up on some reading or begin work on a proj- ect that doesn't require others. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — You'll be feeling run down. Be good to yourself. Enjoy a favorite meal, call up an old friend and keep your projects to a minimum until you regain your energy. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — You need to take part in something new and excit- ing. Gather close friends and neighbors and organize a day of physical or intellectual compe- titions that will motivate and stimulate everyone. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Your schedule will be turned upside down by an unanticipat- ed situation. Remain calm and deal with matters diplomatical- ly. Becoming overly emotional will only make matters worse. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — A trip with or to visit friends will provide inspiration for a new career direction. You will be sur- prised at the opportunities that are available and within reach. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Don't obsess over work mat- ters. Make it a habit when you arrive home to do something to take your thoughts off your job. Clearing your mind will help you regenerate. Aries (March 21-April 19) — You don't need to explain your every move. Do whatever it takes to ensure your future security. Do what's right for you and don't worry about the opinions of others. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — By making minor repairs and ad- justments to your residence, you will increase the value of your home and add to your comfort. Shopping will lead to a bargain, but don't go over budget. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Interesting friendships will de- velop through involvement in a worthwhile cause. If you do your best to help others, a leadership position that interests you will become available. Horoscope By Eugenia Last WEDNESDAY, JULY 8 WEDNESDAY,JULY8,2015 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B