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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Mydaughter died three years ago of pancreatic cancer. Three weeks before her death, my husband and I treated a fr iend t o d inner at our country club. He proceeded to tell us that, "I'm not sure you know that other people don't live like this" and elaborated that we are pretentious. I had been sleep- ing at the hospital with my daughter for three months, so his comment sent me reeling. After the dinner he called and apologized for something else he said and I tried to explain that this was not what both- ered me. I got the sense that he didn't listen to what I said. After my daughter died, I tried for two years to get past my fury. Finally, I realized that I needed to end the friendship. The problem is that he and his wife did countless thoughtful acts during my daughter's illness. I ruminate over this, daily. Hearing stories of forgiveness makes me feel guilty. Yet, I have no desire to spend time with this man. Help! —Ruminating DEAR RUMINATING » The path toward forgiveness is to accept and acknowl- edge the good in people, and then to make a choice to let the rest go. It is important in your case to acknowledge the gifts these people granted, and understand that at the most challenging time in your life, an unfortu- nate remark was made which revealed judgment of you. It was thoughtless and rude. What a jerk! You will feel best if you are able to mar- shal your own kindness toward yourself and soften toward others. Of course you don't want to spend time with people you don't like, and if you have tried and it hasn't worked, then you should accept this and under- stand that life really is too short to be with people who judge you. DEAR AMY » I am sending an invitation to a woman I know who is in a triad "marriage" with children. Normally I would address this to "Mr. and Mrs. Jones and Family" or "Ms. Jones and Ms. Smith and family." How do I address it to a triad? I do want to make them all feel welcome. Is the "Ms. Brenda Jones Family" appropriate? — Confused and Accepting DEAR ACCEPTING » I love the contrast of your propriety as it applies to a polyamorous "marriage," which (for people who don't know) is a part- nership, family unit, or "marriage" of more than two adults. I'm assuming there are perhaps two women and one man involved in this unit. First of all, double- check the spelling of your guests' names. Here is a sample for how I would address this invitation: Ms. Marge Simpson Mr. Ricky Ricardo Ms. Liz Lemon & Family Bereaved woman clashes with her opinionated friend You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Cancer(June21-July22) — Problems will surface if you offer advice to a close friend. Spend your time working on ways to make your living space more comfortable. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Travel and romance are high- lighted. Plan to do something out of the ordinary. Express your feelings freely and let important relationships blossom. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Don't wait for others to notice your achievements. By being more assertive, you can make great strides personally and professionally. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — You can't do everything for ev- eryone. Trying to be the perfect friend or partner will be emo- tionally and physically draining. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Collaboration and joint ven- tures will be rewarding. Explore realistic options for improving your financial situation. Discuss your plans with a financial adviser and keep your eye on current trends. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Love is in the air. Some- one you consider a friend has more interest in you than you realize. A social engagement will help true feelings emerge. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Consider starting your own business. Sound out potential partnership prospects. With the right connections, you will be able to market your ideas. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Fend off lethargy by doing something completely unplanned. Try a new sport or go exploring. Educational and adventurous experiences will motivate you to do and be your best. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Be extra careful with your assets and possessions. Resist high-pressure sales pitches and get-rich-quick schemes. A hasty decision will set you back. Pay close attention to detail. Aries (March 21-April 19) — An unanticipated houseguest will give you a chance to show off your hosting skills. Don't be upset with the change in your routine. This is your time to shine. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Professionalism and a strong work ethic will stymie anyone who is trying to discredit you at work. Always use discretion when dealing with colleagues. Keep your emotions in check. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Update your appearance and express the way you feel. You will be pleased with the results if you stick to subtle, classic changes. A social evening will lead to compliments. Horoscope By Eugenia Last THURSDAY, JUNE 25 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM THURSDAY, JUNE 25, 2015 4 D