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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Afriend whom I have been close to since grade school has just moved back to our home area. We were both excited to be in the same region again and for our families to get to know each other. After a few of my invitations to meet up were declined, he came for- ward with the news that his wife is uncom- fortable with me. His wife also went to high school with me but we didn't know each other. We've shared two brief conversations, all over 15 years ago. I have no idea what could be bothering her. I respect what I know of her and had no idea there were any hard feelings. I am deeply saddened to lose the opportunity to get to know her and my friend's children and am shocked that I now can't be in contact with my longtime friend. Am I supposed to gracefully bow out of this friend- ship? Even an explanation or some sort of resolution would help lessen what feels like a very unfair blow. —AtaLoss DEAR AT A LOSS » At this point, the best route to your old friend might be through forging a new friendship with his wife. You say you barely know her and that your only brief contact with her was many years ago. You should reach out to her independently. Perhaps you could pull together a gathering, welcoming her and her husband back to their old stomp- ing grounds — and make a point of inviting her to reconnect. If you try this and fail, then unfortu- nately you will have to ac- cept your primary friend's unfortunate choice. DEAR AMY » Your advice to "Brokenhearted," who received the same gifts and endearments from her widower husband that he gave his first wife, was right on! Many men are not intuitive or cre- ative in these areas and he may have been simply trying to express his love for her using what he knew. He most likely will need some gentle guid- ance and suggestions from her to establish their own traditions and memories. I am in the same situation as she is. I have been with my 78-year-old widower for almost four years. It hasn't always been easy for either one of us, but it is definitely worth the effort and patience. I feel so lucky to have found this love late in life. I wish Brokenhearted success and happiness and would like her to think about this: A large part of his being is directly related to his former marriage, without which he would not be the same person he is now. I hope she can find comfort, acceptance and even gratitude with the memory of his former wife and will find that the "ghost" is actually a spirit of good will and a promise of happiness to come. — Older and Wiser Too DEAR WISER » Lovely and uplifting advice. Friend's return home brings interesting complications You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Gemini(May21-June 20) — Money is heading your way. Financial gains are likely through repayment of a loan, hidden assets, winnings or gifts. Romance is in the air. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Stop looking at the negative and embark on a new creative project that will put you in a positive frame of mind. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Other financial opportunities will crop up that should not be dismissed without a fair assess- ment. Your financial adviser can help you set up a sound fiscal strategy. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — New friendships will revitalize you. A short trek to an interest- ing area will prove enlightening and provide lasting memories. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Some minor alterations will enhance your appearance and boost your outlook. If others are getting on your nerves, you should find a task that you can pursue on your own. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Stay informed. Be aware of current events and how they can impact your life. Enroll in a course, or answer ads that intrigue you. Learning is a con- tinuous process. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Don't spoil a relationship by dwelling on minor disagree- ments. If someone you care about has let you down, voice your feelings. Brooding will make a situation worse. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Get passionate about the things that matter. A common goal will bring you close to a wide range of people. A charita- ble organization will appreciate your help. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Minor mishaps are in store if you aren't careful. Keep your mind on the task at hand to avoid accidents, and make sure that your cash and valuables are protected. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — You will feel compelled to revisit a place or person that means a lot to you. Time spent away from your current routine will be enlightening. Youngsters will revitalize you. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Your sincerity and passion are magnetic, so use your leader- ship qualities to make positive changes. Become the spokes- person for disadvantaged or oppressed people. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — You will have lots of time for so- cial activities once you take care of your responsibilities. Stay on good terms with those in a posi- tion to help you advance. Form a prosperous partnership. Horoscope By Eugenia Last SATURDAY, JUNE 20 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM SATURDAY, JUNE 20, 2015 6 B