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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»My29-year- old daughter has been seeing her 37-year-old boyfriend (neither has ever been married) for just ov er o ne y ear. They seem to talk as if they are serious, and it sounds like this relation- ship will eventually lead to marriage. However, there has been no talk of a ring, proposal, etc., on his part. When I ask my daughter about this, she is very clear that I should stay out of their business. It seems these days, girls date for five, 10 years — one of my daughter's friends is going on 15 years with no plans of marriage! Call us old-fashioned, but why does this "dat- ing" stuff have to go on so long? Both of these people have good-paying jobs and they seem to care very deeply about each other. Let's get this show on the road! How long does this "getting to know each other" thing have to last? Should my husband and I step in and ask this guy what his future intentions are toward our daughter? —ConcernedParents DEAR PARENTS » Yes, you should definitely sit this 37-year-old man down and query him about his private life and plans for the future. Perhaps you could also bring along some brochures for engagement rings you would like to see on your daughter's finger. And don't forget to pressure this couple about having grandchildren! Truly, you are med- dling and being disre- spectful. Given your be- havior, you shouldn't be surprised if your daughter never gets married. This sort of pressure will affect her behavior in ways that aren't good for any of you. Back off. Way off. DEAR AMY » Eighteen years ago I left my career to stay home. Now, I have two seniors heading to college and too much free time. I am happily mar- ried to a man who has a successful business and works from home. I have friends and volunteer, but I'm bored. I don't want to return to work full time because my youngest son is still in school. I spend a lot of time thinking about small businesses I could start or jobs I could apply for, but I can't seem to pick one and get going. How can I decide what to do and actually make it happen? — In the Doldrums DEAR DOLDRUMS » You don't need to map out the rest of your life right now — you only need to get unstuck to start this transition into the next phase of your life. Start by applying for part-time jobs — any part-time job. It might take you a while to get something because you've been out of the workforce. If it were me, I'd try to work the lunch shift at a busy diner. The tiring workday, responsibilities and glancing interac- tion with lots of different people from all walks of life could be good for you and might inspire your next phase. Parents want adult daughter's boyfriend to put a ring on it You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Gemini(May21-June20) — You will face an unpleasant consequence if people feel that you have been misleading. Be- fore you convince others to join your mission, check your facts. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Think before you speak. Your heightened emotions will cause you to overreact. There is no need to be defensive if no one is threatening you. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Your charming ways and humorous mood will have people flocking to your side. Accept as many social invitations as you can handle. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Before you sign up for a loan or make a major purchase, you should do a realistic assessment of your financial status. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — You may be overwhelmed by the demands being put on you. Don't spread yourself too thin. It's perfectly fine to say no. Take care of your needs first and don't feel guilty. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Surround yourself with posi- tive, upbeat people. Good moods are contagious, and you will feel your stress falling away once you loosen up. An intriguing partnership is on the horizon. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Be self-aware. If your instincts tell you something is not right, listen to them. Scam artists are very convincing, and if you fall for a sales pitch, you will have regrets. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — You will alienate the people you live with if you try to force your opinions on them. Take a step back and let matters settle down before you spoil a close relationship. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Love, harmony and romance are highlighted. Plan an intimate liaison with a special someone, or get out and meet someone new if you are single. Communi- cation will lead to affection and commitment. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Introduce yourself to the person you have been admiring from a distance. You are likely to find a lot of common ground once you compare notes. Aries (March 21-April 19) — You are likely to feel confined and to be easily upset if you stay indoors today. Use your en- ergy to complete outdoor chores or to engage in some physical activity. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — A recent quarrel with someone will stress you out. Open up the lines of communication, declare your feelings and admit your shortcomings. Clear your con- science and ease your mind. Horoscope By Eugenia Last THURSDAY, JUNE 11 THURSDAY,JUNE11,2015 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B