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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman PHOEBEANDHERUNICORN DanaSimpson ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»Irecently started working for a new company in a pretty heav- ily male-dominated field. On certain emails sent to large groups of co- workers, I've noticed that my colleagues address the email to "Gentlemen." There are clearly at least two females cc'd on most of these emails. I feel as though the emails are not ad- dressed to me with this greeting; I believe that it is old-fashioned and offensive. Do you have thoughts on how to ad- dress this — without ruf- fling feathers or coming off the wrong way? —NoGentleman DEAR NO » It is not professional (or polite) to address a group of colleagues — where at least one is a woman — as "Gentlemen." Perhaps you could send out a group email to your work group with the subject line, "A Quick Suggestion." In the body of the email you could write: "It would be helpful if we could address emails to our working group as 'Colleagues' or a similar gender-neutral term. I don't speak for the other women in our group, but when I am included on emails addressed to 'Gentlemen,' I'm some- times unsure if they are intended for me." If you are unable to do this, you could ask your supervisor or HR repre- sentative for suggestions on how to handle this. DEAR AMY » My girlfriend and I have been engaged for several years and have a 4-year-old son, but for economic reasons we are still living separately. We often have conflicts because I feel she spends too much time with other friends and does not al- low me the proper role of a father. I have suggested that we designate at least a couple of days as family time. This Mother's Day we decided to go to a carnival and then to din- ner. When she showed up with another guy and said he was going to hang out with us I blew up. Was I wrong? — Upset and Offended DEAR OFFENDED » Presum- ing your child was pres- ent at this Mother's Day outing, I have to point out the o bvious — th at "bl ow- ing up" in front of your child is always wrong. Your desire to spend more time with your son is natural and laudable. One way to spend more time together would be to cohabit with your family — and yet you and your fiance don't quite seem to be a couple, or even headed in that direc- tion. If you were headed toward couplehood, then she would want to ride the tilt-a-whirl at the car- nival of life with you. Because it seems unlikely at this point that you and she will marry, you should research your legal rights and respon- sibilities concerning your son. Your child's mother does not demonstrate a willingness to go along with your excellent "fam- ily time" concept. You cannot force her to do this, and so your family time might be confined to time spent with your son. Colleague wonders how to correct 'gentlemen' greeting You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Gemini(May21-June20) — Don't be put off by minor setbacks. You will be able to summon the strength you need to get through a trying day. Plan to have some fun with friends. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — You will need patience as well as tolerance when dealing with troublesome friends and rela- tives. Flying off the handle will lead to regret and only com- pound a difficult situation. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Physical activity will get your blood flowing and clear your mind. Enjoy nature or an activity that makes you feel happy and accomplished if you want to find it easier to deal with press- ing matters. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Someone will not measure up to your standards. If others are reluctant to follow your lead, you may have to go it alone. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Your nerves will be frazzled. If you are having trouble staying focused, take a break and relax. A good book or soothing music will help ease your stress. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — A chance to increase your cash flow is imminent. Joint ventures and collaborations look promising. Listen to the recom- mendations that a friend with experience has to offer. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Love and romance are in the stars. Don't hide in a corner hoping that someone will notice you. Be bold and make things happen. It's up to you to make a move. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Don't allow someone's com- ments or criticism to prevent you from following through with your plans. Concentration and determination will enable you to achieve your goals. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — You need to take a break. Hard work and long hours will take their toll on your health. Reward yourself with a getaway to a place where you can relax. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Lessen your debt load. Going over your credit limit will have a negative impact on your future. Spend wisely and invest care- fully if you want to ease your stress. Aries (March 21-April 19) — An important decision should not be rushed. Do your due diligence and consider all angles before signing a contract or making a commitment. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — A jealous individual will try to make you look bad or damage your reputation. You will receive help from an unexpected source, and a lasting friendship will develop. Horoscope By Eugenia Last FRIDAY, MAY 29 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM FRIDAY, MAY 29, 2015 4 B