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Is there any recourse that we might investigate to help put an end to this? —FrustratedGrampa DEAR GRAMPA » I don't often suggest this, but I think you should call a lawyer. The school has a duty to provide a safe environment for your granddaughter (and other children). If this bullying is continuing, then I don't believe the school has done everything in its power to make it stop. It has acknowledged that it happened by suspend- ing the boy; evidently the child and his family aren't affected by this consequence. This also presents a learning opportunity for both children. A coun- selor should work with the offender to educate him about the impact of his actions. In addition to being told that his actions are wrong and unaccept- able, he should under- stand why. He should acknowledge his actions and apologize to your granddaughter. You should support your granddaughter's efforts to stand up for herself, but mentor her also to feel compassion and sorrow for a boy who is so ignorant and cruel. DEAR AMY » We are a group of six women who have been friends for over 20 years. Some are married, some with grandchildren, and all are retired/semi-retired. For the last few years, one member of our group has become nearly impos- sible to reach via phone, and when any of us leaves a voice mail, our calls are seldom returned, with either no reason or some vague or lame excuse. She claims her friends are important, but we are finding that hard to believe. What can we do? — Upset Friends DEAR UPSET » Your friend's behavior is errat- ic, and I wonder if she is dealing with some health (or other) problems that she is shielding from you. She could be suffer- ing from depression; she could be an alcoholic, ha v e fi na nc ia l tr ou bl es , family worries or be in an abusive relationship. She might also have a personal issue with one or more in your group. Rather than doubt your friend's sincerity or chastise her for her rude- ness and unreliability, you should approach her in an attitude of concern. Granddaughterisracially bullied by male classmate You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Aries(March21-April19)— Your open, kind nature will draw many admirers. This is a good time to approach your boss for a raise or a more responsible position. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Make the most of your skills and enthusiasm. Don't stick to the same routine. A physical or intellectual competition will be the perfect way to have fun. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Keep a low profile. You will be overwhelmed by responsibilities. Take a moment to regenerate by engaging in a personal hobby. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Devote your spare time to a suc- cessful moneymaking venture. Keep up-to-date on property values and investment strate- gies so you are prepared. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Your dynamic personality lends itself to a leadership role. Step to the front of any group or organization you join. Your take- charge attitude will bring you respect and rewards. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Don't make promises based on what you think someone wants. Be truthful about your emotions. Hurt feelings and disappoint- ment will result if your opinions are not clear. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — A seminar or group will be the source of a rewarding friendship. Join a club that you feel drawn to and you will meet someone with similar interests. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Spend your time wisely and make some concrete moves toward securing your future. Long-term investments or solid strategies to save money can and should be put into place. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Make a point to expand your current routine and put a healthy plan into motion. If you feel good and are happy with the way you look, you will do good things. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — You can outmaneuver the competition if you are proactive. Don't wait for someone else to recognize what you have to offer. Showcase your skills and seize opportunities. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Share an optimistic point of view. Personal and professional relationships will benefit from any contribution you make. Offer positive suggestions to someone who is down and out. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Someone will get the wrong impression. Resentment is likely to surface if you aren't honest. Be clear about where you want to be and what you are willing to do to get there. 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