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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman GETFUZZY DarbyConley ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»I'mawoman in my late 20s. For several years, my friend "Ter- ence" has always been there for me. He has helped when I've gone through breakups, when my mother had cancer and when my house was vandalized and all my stuff was stolen. He does little things for me, like dropping off soup when I'm sick or sending me flowers. I know he has feelings for me. He and I have talked about dating, but when it comes up, I am either not looking to date anyone, or I'm already dating someone. I think I would date him some day. Recently, he said he feels like he's "second best" because I only spend time with him when I don't have plans. It came to a head recently. I went for a pre- dawn bike ride and had a mechanical problem. I called him and he biked 10 miles on the trail to bring me a spare part. We watched the sunrise together. He invit- ed me out for breakfast, but I told him the guy I'm dating was still asleep at my apartment and I didn't want him to wake up without me there. Terence said it was the last straw. The last thing he said to me was, "The next time you're in trouble, call the guy you're sleeping with, not me. Or better yet, just don't call me again." He hasn't returned my calls, texts or emails. How do I repair the friendship? —Lost DEAR LOST » If you and "Terence" reconnect, the relationship pattern you have established will continue, despite your better intentions. If you lured him back, you would eventually burn him again — because you'd like to have a nice guy stowed away in your backpack for when you need him. You should quietly let him go. Terence deserves a parade, as well as a re- lationship with someone who puts him first. DEAR AMY » My son mar- ried and then divorced within months. They parted friends. My ex-husband and his wife have taken my ex- daughter-in-law into their home. I have no problem with that. My problem is they have disowned my son. They demanded he return money they gave to him as a wedding gift. They berate our son to the point of madness. They called him "Hitler- like." My son is honor- able. He has a steady job, a home, and will not say a bad thing about his ex. He refuses to let me talk to his dad and tell his side. Is there a fix? — Loving Mom DEAR MOM » Your son can continue to love his father, but groveling for connection from someone who compares you to Hitler is not good for a person's self-esteem. Even though it was a gift, your son should return the wedding cash, in portions if necessary. However, he should do so for his own sense of pride — not to appease his father. Woman likes having nice guy friend to keep in her pocket You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Scorpio(Oct.24-Nov.22) — Don't offer private informa- tion to anyone. A casual remark made to the wrong person will cause serious difficulties. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Contribute to your local food bank or community in some small way. Showing your gener- ous side will spark the interest of someone you respect. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — You will be distressed and disappointed by someone who lets you down. If too much pres- sure is put on your relationship, consider backing away. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Don't hesitate to accept a leadership position within your organization or group. Influential individuals will be impressed by your knowledge and ideas. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Come to terms with whatever is preying on your mind. Leave the past behind. It's hard to move forward when you are still looking back. Aries (March 21-April 19) — An impromptu daytrip or adventure will inspire you to ex- plore unfamiliar places. Plan an exciting holiday to somewhere new with someone you enjoy spending time with. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Not everyone will understand what's going on in your personal life or your community. Be diplomatic when express- ing your views, and keep your explanations simple and easy to follow. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Don't let your volatile emotions dominate your day. Try not to overreact if someone offers you unsolicited advice. Help will come to you from an unusual and mysterious source. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Many people will look up to you if you are conscientious and thoughtful. A recommendation will be made that will lead to a promotion. Include everyone in your good fortune. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — If you have been spending too much time in front of the TV, take on a physical challenge. Friends and colleagues may not join in, but don't let that stop you. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Honesty is the best policy, but you should also be mind- ful of other people's feelings. A gentle suggestion will be more effective than force or making an outright declaration. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — You will feel especially upbeat and optimistic today. Share your good spirit with everyone you encounter. Your happiness will be infectious, and you will brighten everyone's day. Horoscope By Eugenia Last TUESDAY, OCT. 28 TUESDAY,OCTOBER28,2014 REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM |YOURDAILYBREAK | 3 B