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DILBERT ScottAdams PEARLSBEFORESWINE StephanPastis PICKLES BrianCrane BABYBLUES JerryScott&RickKirkman GETFUZZY DarbyConley ZITS JerryScott&JimBorgman SHERMAN'SLAGOON JimToomey ARGYLESWEATER ScottHilburn BIZARRO DanPiraro DEARAMY»AsI've entered my later golden years, I often think about mistakes I've made dur- ing my life — people I've w ro ng e d , p eo pl e w ho have wronged me, poor financial decisions I've made, things I should have done (but didn't) and things I shouldn't have done but did. I would like to go back in time, reboot my life and cor- rect every- thing. Sort of perform a "do-over" of my life. I need a cure for this, so I can stop thinking about my mistakes, since we don't get a second chance in life to fix them. What advice can you offer about how to forget mistakes of the past, think only of the future, and get on with the busi- ness of life? —Willard DEAR WILLARD » Instead of thinking only of the future, one must learn to live in the moment — that's today's moment, with its unmade bed, undone chores, and the reality of past mistakes and losses: all those things you've done and left undone. Of course it is not too late — it is never too late — to apolo- gize to someone, to ask for forgiveness, or to try to right a wrong. Do this where you can. A therapist once ad- vised me to write my own obituary. Creating this document helps you see the totality of your life, along with noting those things for which you'd like to be remembered. I hi g hl y r e c om me n d t hi s exercise. Make a determina- tion to start to live your second life. DEAR AMY » I am a 17- year-old introverted girl with an extrovert for a mother. For the past few months, things like advanced-placement classes, my job, sports and the constant presence of people have weighed me down. My energy is easily drained, and small stuff like people casually touching me or striking up meaningless conversa- tions will wear me out. My mother wins the gold medal for violat- ing my personal space. I try to explain that the last thing I can stand is yet another hug or more pleasantries, but she won't listen because she thrives on the stuff that drains me. I think she may be afraid of me being an introvert because she doesn't like my need for space. What more can I do to gain some space at home without hiding in my room? — Going Insane DEAR GOING » Your intro- verted nature means that lots of contact with other people drains you. You need quiet to recharge. I am sorry that your mother doesn't respect this beautiful character of yours. My suggestion does involve you basically hiding in your room — although you could use any room in the house if your mother would respect your privacy for a set period. Start a new routine every day to build in some necessary quiet. Reliving past mistakes keeps man from enjoying the present You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@tribune.com and follow her on Twitter @askingamy. Amy Dickinson Ask Amy Sudoku Instructions:Theobjectistoplacethe numbers1to9intheemptysquaresso thateachrow,eachcolumnandeach 3x3boxcontainsthenumberonlyonce. AnswertoPreviousPuzzle CelebrityCipher ByLuisCampos Instructions:CelebrityCiphercryptogramsarecreatedfromquotationsbyfamouspeople, pastandpresent.Eachletterinthecipherstandsforanother. NEACrossword Libra(Sept.23-Oct.23) — Discord and disappointment will lead to minor mishaps. Face relationship issues that are causing you stress in order to sleep better. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) — Don't be in such a rush. If your schedule is too full, it's time to slow things down. Minor accidents are more likely to oc- cur if you are distracted. Sagittarius (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) — Tension and stress can be averted with physical exercise. Sports, or less-strenuous pas- times will help you relax. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — If someone disagrees with your opinion, don't take it per- sonally. Letting your emotions dictate your actions will cost you if you aren't careful. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — You will receive a tempting offer. Make sure to get all of the requirements and expectations in writing before you make a verbal commitment. Romance is on the rise. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Don't let others take credit for your work. Make sure that your employer knows what and how much you contribute so your talents will be recognized and advancement will be yours. Aries (March 21-April 19) — You will be bogged down with family duties. Let everyone know that you expect hands-on support, or you will end up tired and frustrated. Look out for your interests. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Keep a low profile. Dealing with relatives or friends will be troublesome. Find a worthwhile project to work on alone. Reor- ganize your closet or clear up some personal papers. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Step up your physical activity. Games or sports with younger people will be rewarding and fun, and will help to burn off some extra calories. Welcome any challenge that comes. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Don't say the first thing that comes to mind. Those around you may be oversensitive, so choose your words carefully in order to avoid an unwanted argument. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Mixing business with pleasure is not a good idea. Revealing too much personal information to colleagues or friends will lead to an embarrassing or uncom- fortable situation that will be difficult to reverse. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — A joint financial venture will lead to problems. A more effective way to hold on to your money is to keep it in a safe place that pays interest. Horoscope By Eugenia Last THURSDAY, OCT. 9 | YOURDAILYBREAK | REDBLUFFDAILYNEWS.COM THURSDAY, OCTOBER 9, 2014 6 B