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DILBERT Scott Adams PEARLS BEFORE SWINE Stephan Pastis PICKLES Brian Crane BABY BLUES Jerry Scott & Rick Kirkman GET FUZZY Darby Conley ZITS Jerry Scott & Jim Borgman SHERMAN'S LAGOON Jim Toomey ARGYLE SWEATER Scott Hilburn BIZARRO Dan Piraro While I'm away, read- ers give the advice. ON FEELING GUILT FOR DATING AFTER A PART- NER'S DEATH » Several years ago, our darling son died suddenly while recov- ering from cancer surgery. He had been married to the love of his life 2 years and 11 days when he died. The week he died was also the week the child they had lost would have been born. His wife was mourning the loss of their child when her husband died in her arms. We were all so shocked and devastated with his loss that much of it is a blur but somehow, at the end of the funeral, this clear thought entered my mind. I held her hands and told her that he loved her so much that he wouldn't want her to spend her life alone and miserable. A year after he died, she went to lunch with her uncle and he asked her if she would ever consider dating again. She said she had given it some thought and decided that she would not pursue it herself, but if others wanted to fix her up on a blind date they could ... but just ONCE. It had better be a good one because they only had one chance at it. (She couldn't bear the idea of being fixed up with anyone and every- one who happened by.) Later that week, her uncle went golfing and happened to play with a young man he had never met before. By the 18th hole the young man knew the entire story of this beautiful young girl. The young man is a beautiful person — in fact he reminds us of our son. My husband and I did NOT attend the wedding ... not because we felt any ill will. It was THEIR special time, and we did not want anyone looking from us to them while they exchanged vows. We are all very close and he respects the rela- tionship between us. If you turn to Love and Light, it will return to you. — C. ON WATCHING A GROWN CHILD MAKE BAD RELA- TIONSHIP CHOICES » Our son took us down that road and we were literally frightened for him. I am thankful for the power of parental love and plain talks of consequences — particularly when deliv- ered in no-nonsense terms from my Rock-of-Gibraltar husband to our son. There were no theatrics or screaming, just some tears and lots of standing our ground. It was difficult but powerful and our son responded. Yes, he thought he was in love, but he came to see what we saw, that he was being used and isolated from his own family and close friends. Parents can't choose spouses or careers for their children, but we do sometimes have some valuable knowledge when it comes to character assessment. We have told our children that when health and safety are at stake, we will speak up on their behalf, even if it is awkward. That part isn't negotiable. — A. Widows battle guilt when they consider dating again Carolyn Hax Ask Carolyn Email Carolyn Hax at tellme@washpost.com, follow her on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ carolyn.hax or chat with her online at noon Eastern time each Friday at www.washingtonpost.com. Sudoku Instructions: The object is to place the numbers 1 to 9 in the empty squares so that each row, each column and each 3x3 box contains the number only once. Answer to Previous Puzzle Celebrity Cipher By Luis Campos Instructions: Celebrity Cipher cryptograms are created from quotations by famous people, past and present. Each letter in the cipher stands for another. NEA Crossword Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20) — Opportunity is within reach. A partnership could prove to be beneficial. Be aware of your col- leagues' ideas and intentions. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Be on the alert for valuable financial information. There is a possibility of advancement, or perhaps a new job, if you are able to use a choice tip. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — You will face opposition if you are outspoken. There is nothing to be gained by antagonizing everyone around you. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Your plans for advancement will be given a big boost from people you have helped in the past. The generosity you've shown will be proof enough that you deserve greater rewards. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — A partnership will flourish if given the chance. If you share your intentions, you will get the response you need to move forward in a timely manner. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Someone may be jealous of your achievements. Don't be influenced by the negative com- ments of others. You will get re- warding results if you continue on the path you have chosen. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — There is much to be gained through travel or educational pursuits. As your knowledge in- creases, more opportunities will become available. Someone you meet along the way will offer you a business proposition. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) — You'll be overwhelmed with responsibilities. Don't allow self-doubt to prevent you from improving your prospects. Perform whatever task you are given to the best of your ability. Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) — It's a good day for you to deal with a disagreeable personal situation. You cannot protect someone's feelings. Honesty will be in your best interest. Delaying the inevitable will only compound the problem. Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) — A promotion is within your reach. Your hard work and dedication will open the door to new job possibilities. Be pre- pared to jump at any opportu- nity that comes your way. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Career and family com- mitments will be detrimental to your mental health. Take in some lighthearted entertain- ment or share laughs with a friend to ease stress. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18) — There is no good reason to get involved in someone else's argument. Regardless of the circumstances, you can simply refuse to take sides. Horoscope By Bernice Bede Osol THURSDAY, MARCH 6 Thursday, March 6, 2014 rEdBLuFFdaILyNEWs.cOM | YOUR DAILY BREAK | 3 B