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Monday, October 11, 2010 – Daily News – 3B Boorish beau bothers boarder Popcorn OK on Gott diet Dear Annie: My roommate, ‘‘Trish,’’ and I are good friends, and we are both attending the same college. Last spring, her boyfriend spent a lot of time at our apartment. He stayed overnight several times, which made me uncomfortable. I spoke with both of them about it and offered to spend one night a week at my parents’ house so they could have the apart- ment to themselves. Trish agreed, but her boyfriend didn’t. He continued to hang out at the apartment even when she wasn’t there and liked to walk around in his underwear without a shirt. The boyfriend left for the summer and came back two weeks ago. Today, he came by the apartment and lounged in the living room with his shirt up and his pants unzipped. Even after I told him his fly was open, he didn’t fix it. He doesn’t respect my roommate or me, and I’m tired of being ignored. Trish is a dear friend, but I’m ready to move out. I don’t want to hurt her feelings, so is there any way I can make him lis- ten to me? — No More Patience Annie’s Mailbox by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar intolerable and you are moving out. We don’t think she will object too strong- ly. Find another roommate and another apart- ment. This one, apparently, is taken. Dear Annie: On numerous occasions, I have witnessed my 63- Dear No More: No. He has no interest in lis- tening to you, and if Trish has asked him to be more respectful (we doubt it), he doesn’t listen to her, either. Regardless, she permits this, which means she prefers his company to yours. Tell Trish you are so sorry, but the situation has become year-old father mastur- bating, usually in the late evening while watching TV on the couch in the basement. There is a large window, and from the outside, you can see him engaging in this behavior. You can also see him from the stairs in my parents’ bungalow, since they are hollow. Meanwhile, my mother is in the kitchen on the top floor, unaware of her hus- band’s favorite pastime. What really bothers me is that my 6-year-old nephew and 2-year-old niece are sleeping one floor above. I am disgust- ed by my father’s behav- ior and also concerned. I believe he does this every evening. Should I tell my sister, brother-in-law and mother about my father’s disgraceful and unsettling habit? — Concerned Aunt in Canada Dear Aunt: We under- stand why seeing your father this way bothers you, but his personal habits are his own. The only reasons to be con- cerned are that he can be seen (although it seems to require some effort), and that there is an extremely slim possibility that young children could catch him in the act. Tell your father, privately, that he needs to cover up or Campus Oct. 19. do this elsewhere. It’s no one else’s business. FEATURES If readers would like to con- Dear Annie: I read the letter from ‘‘Tuxless in Bettendorf, La.,’’ whose father refuses to wear a tux at his daughter’s wed- ding. Back in the 1970s, my dad picked me up at the airport for my brother’s wedding. En route home, he stopped at a bargain store and found a tan polyester suit. The morn- ing of the wedding, Mom held out the tux she had rented, only to hear Dad growl that there was no way he was going to put on that monkey suit. A little while later, he came out of the bedroom in his brand-new polyester suit, which actually looked very nice. The colors even went well with the wedding party. On the other hand, the father of the bride showed up in a dark green leisure suit he could barely get into, topped off with an orange tie that was way too short. By comparison, Dad looked debonair. If compromising on the tux gets Dad down the aisle, it’s worth it. — N.D. Sister of the Groom Dear Sister: Yes, and the bride will be thrilled Dad isn’t wearing a green leisure suit and orange tie. Annie’s Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailboxcomcast.n et, or write to: Annie’s Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611. tact Dr. Gott, they may write him directly to Dr. Gott c/o United Media, 200 Madison Ave., 4th fl., New York, NY 10016. How- ever, if readers want to request a newsletter, they should write to the Ohio address. DEAR DR. GOTT: I started your diet six days ago. I have lost one pound and am thrilled. I wonder if I can eat popcorn as a snack while on your diet. I pop it in olive oil and don’t use butter. DEAR READER: Congratulations on your initial success. A weight loss of about one pound per week is average and healthful while on my no-flour, no- sugar diet. You can eat popcorn on my diet, but be careful about what type you choose. Air-popped is the best, because it does- n’t require any fat. But if you choose to pop it in oil, olive is the best. After popping, you can sprinkle on season- ings, such as garlic powder, chili pow- der or even a little salt. Remember, moderation is key, especially with regard to salt intake. DEAR DR. GOTT: I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your column. Two years ago, I had been suf- fering from night sweats owing to peri- menopause, and your column advised taking bee pollen. I tried it, and within just a few days, my night sweats all but disappeared. I kept taking the bee pollen (1,000 milligrams daily) for a few months and then stopped, thinking I didn’t need it anymore. Several months passed with no sweats, but recently they began again, as well as periodic daytime hot flashes. I went back on the bee pollen and, again, after just a few days, I don’t have any more sweating, day or night! I just wanted to pass this on to you and your readers, and to thank you, again, for your won- derful advice. DEAR READER: Thank you for your kind comments. I am happy to have helped. Bee pollen has been used for years. It is touted to cure certain health prob- lems and to be an exceptionally nutri- tious food. It has undergone years of research, but so far, nothing can be con- firmed. However, there is a plethora of David Mas Masumoto will be lecturing, telling stories and talk about his critically acclaimed, award winning books on Oct. 19 and 20, including a stop at the Tehama A frequent guest on NPR, Mas Masumoto’s work reveals gentle insights born from over four generations of care for the Masumoto family land. The following events are free Continued by Popular Demand! “PRIVATE PARTY” CLASSIFIED ADS FREE Through October 30! Sell your stuff! Boats/Autos too! Certain restrictions apply Call Daily News Classified For details! 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If you suffer from allergies to pollen, this supplement may cause a serious or even life-threatening reaction, so it is important to talk to your physician before using it. It shouldn’t be used by pregnant or breastfeeding women but otherwise appears to be safe for short- term use. To provide related information, I am sending you a copy of my Health Report “Menopause.” Other readers who would like a copy should send a self-addressed stamped No. 10 enve- lope and a $2 check or money order payable to Newsletter and mailed to Newsletter, P.O. Box 167, Wickliffe, OH 44092. Be sure to mention the title or print an order form off my website at www.AskDrGottMD.com. DEAR DR. GOTT: Your article on seizures was totally garbled and seri- ously incorrect in places. I’m an epilep- tologist. DEAR DOCTOR: I apologize for any errors that may have appeared, but your brief note is not very helpful in explaining how and where I went wrong, if indeed I did. Perhaps next time you want to tell someone he did wrong, you could elaborate just a bit. For my readers, an epileptologist is a neurologist who specializes in epilepsy. Dr. Peter H. Gott is a retired physician and the author of several books, including “Live Longer, Live Better,” “Dr. Gott’s No Flour, No Sugar Diet” and “Dr. Gott’s No Flour, No Sugar Cookbook,” which are available at most bookstores or online. His website is www.AskDrGottMD.com. Noted author, organic farmer David Mas Masumoto to talk at Shasta College Shasta College announces Tehama Campus, 770 Diamond Ave. Red Bluff, Community Room • Tuesday, Oct. 19, 10 a.m. Campus Center Stage • Tuesday, Oct. 19, 7 p.m. / Room 802 • Wednesday, Oct. 20, 10 a.m. / Campus Center Stage • Wednesday, Oct. 20, 11 a.m. / Campus Center Stage At most of the above events, books will be available for pur- chase and signing. These events are free to attend and are open to the pub- lic. For more information call 242-2240 or semd an email to fnigro@shastacollege.edu.