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2A Daily News – Tuesday, July 30, 2013 Community people&events Times of silence Strack-Gonzalez to wed Guy and Lynn Strack of Redding announce the engagement of their daughter, Kristin Strack, to Levi Gonzalez, the son of Guy Gonzalez of Redding and Mindy Gonzalez of Red Bluff. The bride elect is a 2005 graduate of Shasta High School and a 2010 graduate of Shasta College's dental hygiene program. She works as a registered dental hygienist at Cass Family Dentistry in Redding. The prospective groom is a 2004 graduate of Red Bluff High School and 2009 graduate of CSU Chico with a bachelor's degree in Social Science. He earned a teaching credential through National University and works as a Special Education Teacher at Jackson Heights Elementary School in Red Bluff. The wedding is planned for May 31, 2014 at a private residence in Millville. SECRET WITNESS 529-1268 A program of Tehama County Neighborhood Watch Program, Inc. 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Email: dispatch@redbluffdailynews.com Email: dispatch@redbluffdailynews.com Online FAX: (530) 527-2151 (530) 527-5774 anger and into acceptance. can't tell up from down Acceptance comes from and may not be able to mulling things over, from cope in the first few days, allowing your inner wisbut eventually they need dom to work through what to come to terms with you find unbearable, unfair what is happening. or unjust. There are so It seems that the key many things in life we reason people don't want shouldn't have to do. We to be alone is that they shouldn't have to bury childon't know what to do dren, we shouldn't have to with the emptiness and watch family members die the free time in their of disease and in pain. We head. That is the time Faydra shouldn't have to fear injuswhere their thoughts race tices. We shouldn't have to and they simply can't Rector lose jobs, homes, our health keep themselves preoccupied enough to shut You Matter or more. No matter who you are, out the thoughts that are you will face some form of intruding and causing them to feel the nausea and subse- tragedy. Don't hold yourself back quent anxiety. It is in the times from the healing that can come from alone that they understand the taking time alone. Use your alone poignancy of the matter at hand. time to process your inner most They why questions or the what if's pain, thoughts and hopes. Some of life's best answers and biggest comor the if onlys. I encourage anyone who is in forts have come in a dream, in the tragedy, spiritual, emotional, finan- shower or while you drive in your cial or legal to force yourself to car without the radio. Give them a embrace your times of quiet. Allow chance to come. Wait in hopeful yourself the moments of solitude. It anticipation for the comfort you is in these moments that you are the need in your times of silence. most honest with yourself and Faydra Rector, MA is a mental whomever your higher power is. You can't deny your feelings when health administrator, author, public there is no one there to allow you to speaker, educator and life coach who cover them up. You can't deflect lives in Red Bluff. She can be reached dealing with your pain and anger at lifecoach@shasta.com or view her at because you aren't distracted by blogs http://faydraandcompany.blogspot.co something else. and Part of moving through the grief m/ cycle is getting past the point of http://allaboutdivorce.blogspot.com/. Marines Corps League raffle Members of the Marine Corps League, Detachment 1140, sold tickets July 14 for a raffle with three prizes. Prizes included gift cards to various businesses who help support the mission of the Marine Corps League to assist with veterans affairs in Tehama County. The detachment provides Honor Guard services for deceased veterans of all branches of the military. They also support the Wounded Warriors Project and other veteran related organizations. Tickets are still available for a suggested $5 donation. Detachment 1140 members practice each Monday at the Veterans Hall, 735 Oak St. in Red Bluff at 6 p.m. Marines are cordially invited to come in and share with other Marines from WW II through today. Detachment 1140 meets on the third Wedenesday of each month at the Veter- Courtesy photo Red Bluff Police Sergeant Quintan Ortega stopped by the booth and spoke with Marine Roy Fansler at M & M Ranchhouse July 14. ans Hall from 6:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. For more information on the raffle and the local Tuesdays: Wednesdays: Business Thursdays: Entertainment Fridays: Education Saturdays: Farm, Religion, TV Circulation Manager: Kathy Hogan khogan@redbluffdailynews.com Production Manager: Sandy Valdivia sandy@redbluffdailynews.com POSTMASTER SEND ADDRESS CHANGES TO: PO BOX 220, RED BLUFF CA 96080 The Red Bluff Daily News is an adjudicated daily newspaper of general circulation, County of Tehama, Superior Court Decree 9670, May 25, 1955 © 2013 Daily News Postage Paid Periodicals Marine Corps League, visit www.mcl1140.com/ or call 1 888-MCL-1140. The Marine Corps League is looking for a few good men and women to continue to serve. COMMUNITY CLIPS Corning Rotary Club. For more information, call 824-7670. Corning Youth Fair The West Street Family Resource Center will be hosting the Corning Youth Fair 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Saturday, Aug. 3 at Corning Northside Park, between Colusa and Tehama streets. Children's activities will include face painting, swimming at the city pool and a raffle for a backpack full of back to school supplies. There will be food and drinks available and information booths for parents. Admission is free and the event is sponsored by the SPECIAL PAGES ON THE FOLLOWING DAYS Publisher & Advertising Director: Greg Stevens gstevens@redbluffdailynews.com Editor: Chip Thompson editor@redbluffdailynews.com Sports Editor: Andre Byik sports@redbluffdailynews.com In the moments after a tragedy, a domino affect occurs. Shock, disbelief and bargaining, which later can roll into anger and depression. Tragedies of a larger magnitude may include the physical reactions of stomach nausea, anxiety attacks, breathing problems and nightmares, if and when you sleep. The bottom line is that most people, no matter how prepared or evolved, do not have the skill sets needed to manage tragedy with ease. There has been a lot of tragedy around today. Deaths, illness and legal issues for many community members. These issues not only affect the afflicted, but their family and friends. To the degree you are connected, you feel more or less impact from what is happening around you, but you feel it nonetheless. I have spoken with people, seen their posts on social media and have personally experienced tragedy that I didn't expect and there is no doubt that I am included in the pool of people who feel shell shocked by circumstances in life. One of the things I have seen people do in times of tragedy is surround themselves with people at all times. Initially, after a tragedy, it is the inclination of most people to band together to help, comfort and engage with one another about the issues at hand. People are helpers at heart and pack animals who need to 'do' things to show their support. This humanistic outreach is important to families who often times Diabetes Support Group The Diabetes Support Group meets the first Monday of every month at 6:30 p.m. at the Coyne Center in the Columba Room. The Coyne Center is across the road from the main entrance of St. Elizabeth Community Hospital with parking both in front and to the side. The next meeting is scheduled for Aug. 5 and the speaker will be Gail Locke, RD, speaking about diabetes and neuropathy. Tea Party Patriots meeting 90 years ago... Warm Weather Is Held Beneficial To Crops Of District With the government thermometer registering 111 at 5 p.m., yesterday was the hottest day in this district so far the present summer. The heat was not felt so much at the relatively low humidity of eight degrees. July 4 was the warmest last year at 112. The hottest ever recorded here since the weather bureau was established fell on July 24, 1902 when it was 115. — July 30, 1923 Tonight's meeting of the Tea Party Patriots will feature Mike and Patty from Corning Tea Party, who will be talking about the election integrity project. Mike will also be singing a few songs. Member Jeff Foster will also be speaking. Next week Don Jans will speak on Marxism and Aug. 13 Christine Stanley, who is president of the Wild Land Firefighters Association, will be the guest. The meeting is at 6 p.m. at the Westside Grange. Amazing Finds All makes and models. We perform dealer recommened Members Welcome 30K, 60K, 90K SERVICES AT LOWER PRICES Smog Check $ starting at 95 $ 25 + 825 certificate (MOST CARS & PICK-UPS) 527-9841 • 195 S. 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