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Sunday, January 29, 2017 Goldsboro News-Argus — 11 919-751-0464 401 N Spence Ave., Cobblestone Place ALL ABOUT TRAVEL With resort locations in Mexico, Jamaica, Dominican Republic, and Costa Rica, Secrets Resorts & Spas have the perfect tropical destination for you. Each of our resorts and spas combines world-class amenities with Unlimited Luxury and adults-only fun. OUR RESORTS & SPAS 36DSP0117D© trimming the wedding GUEST LIST W eddings are a time to celebrate, and many couples hope to invite as many people as possible to share their excitement. A 2014 study by researchers at the University of Denver found that couples who invite at least 150 guests to the wedding may have happier marriages. 8e study examined 418 people who were single at the beginning of the study and married five years later. It found that 47 percent of those people who had gotten married in front of at least 150 guests had "high-quality marriages," while those with 50 or fewer guests fell short. While guests make weddings more enjoyable, and may increase the propensity to enjoy a more successful marriage, couples must be practical and consider their wedding budgets when creating their guest lists. 8e average American wedding includes 120 guests, according to a 2015 Newlywed Survey released by WeddingWire. Couples who are finding it difficult to create and pare down their guest lists can employ the following tips. Create initial lists. When jotting down potential guests' names, write down everyone you want to invite, regardless of budget. 8en list the must-have guests for the wedding. 8is should include the family and friends with whom you interact on a regular basis. Create a separate column for guests who don't make the must-have list. Separate friends from friends' friends. If you don't see people outside of events set up by mutual friends, you should not feel obligated to invite those people to the wedding. 8ey are more likely friends of your friends and not your close friends. Know the guest list ceiling. Catering halls or reception rooms often can only accommodate a certain number of people. Know this number before making a final list. 8e limits of the space may serve as the catalyst for trimming the guest list. Consider coworkers carefully. 8ink about whether you'd still be friends with your coworkers if the company dissolved tomorrow. If not, you should not feel obligated to invite them. Have we met? If you don't remember interacting with a person (your parent's long lost friend from high school) or the person has never met your significant other, then they probably can be cut. If parents insist on inviting someone you barely remember, they should help defray the costs. Cut out the kids. Even though children's dinner costs may be lower than adults', inviting children can significantly increase the guest list. A no-child policy at the reception can save money. Avoid uncomfortable situations. Unless you have remained particularly close, keep former boyfriends and girlfriends off of the guest list. Ask for an unbiased opinion. Give the editing pen to someone else if you cannot make a decision. 8is person may help weed out extraneous guests. Paring down a wedding guest list can be a difficult process, but couples should work together and respect each other's concerns when creating their final list. 77DCT0116J© In Sickness & In Health 919-735-6936 2302 Wayne Memorial Drive • Goldsboro At Wayne Pharmacy, we know that you have many choices to make in your new life together. We would like to be a part of your new family. • Prescriptions • Home Oxygen • Ostomy Care • Diabetic Supplies • Sleep Apnea • Free Citywide Delivery • Much More! WAYNE PHARMACY AND HOME HEALTH CARE SUPPLY Your Hometown Pharmacy since 1972

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