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We have been planning big events such as parties and vacations without her input because she is never around. When she finds out about something that was planned without her direct input, she goes ballistic. She expects everything to be planned carefully around her work and social schedule, and if something is planned when she is not available, she accuses me of being a terrible friend, accuses our friends of not valuing her friendship and acts passive-aggressive about me attending something she can't go to. She seems to be com- pletely unaware that her actions directly impact her friendships with oth- ers (including me). Because her responses are always so irrational and volatile, I'm not sure how to deal with these outbursts other than to ignore her and feel uncomfortable in my own house. Please help. —EntitledorInsane? DEAR ENTITLED » You have the right and responsi- bility to react naturally to any action on your roommate's part, pushing back in a commonsense, neutral way. Her reac- tions and their impact on her relationships are her business and she — not you — will bear the consequences. If she rails about be- ing left out, you should simply tell her, "Hey, you snooze, you lose." If she wants to be an active part of this friend group, then she is going to have to show up to advocate for herself. To enjoy active friend- ships, she has to actually be a friend. She'll have to figure this out. If her behavior toward you creates an uncomfortable environment for you at home, it might be time for you (or her) to explore other housing. DEAR AMY » "Wondering Husband" was trying to figure out how to get his wife to buy clothes that were more flattering to her (larger) figure. She might be embarrassed to try on clothes at the store. There are online stylist services where they ship the clothes to you and you try them on at home. I used one and solved my own problem. — Been There DEAR BEEN THERE » I've been curious about these services. 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Emotional discord will erupt suddenly. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) — Don't let anger take control. A financial issue can be rectified without undue tumult. Offer a workable solution and move along. Make love, not war. Pisces (Feb. 20-March 20) — Moneymaking ventures look promising, but partnerships and dealing with loved ones are likely to cloud your vision. Do your due diligence before get- ting involved in something. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Multitasking will wear you down. Take time to rejuvenate. If you overdo it, you will not end up doing your best. Think mat- ters through and discard what you no longer need. Taurus (April 20-May 20) — If you get involved in something that will challenge you physical- ly and mentally, you will come out looking like a genius. Step into the spotlight and make your dreams come true. Gemini (May 21-June 20) — Explore different lifestyles and cultures. Spending valuable time with younger and older individuals will give you a new outlook regarding the possibili- ties open to you. Cancer (June 21-July 22) — Socialize, make plans to do things with the people you love or sign up for an unusual expedition that will challenge you to do more. Do something creative. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Don't let criticism stop you from following your dreams. Do something creative, stimulat- ing or physically challenging. Make a point to have some fun. Romance is featured. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) — Keep an open mind, but don't let anyone pressure you to do something you don't want to do. Home improvements will not go smoothly. Take time to consider your next move. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) — Get away for a couple of hours. Do something that will ease your stress and give you a better view of what's best for you. Nothing will change if you procrastinate. 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